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I have paid for 41 Years, and the PWC can do whatever they want, they can totally withdraw contact for whatever reason they wish and the courts and the CSA are totally on their side, I have had years of it, including blackmail, threats and lies, I have now finally had enough, don’t see kids, CSA have managed to stop me from being in employment…….. so just had enough……. Fuck the CSA, Fuck the courts, fuck everyone!
Your ex has no right to stop access… Shame on her if she does… I would never stop my ex husband from our daughter no matter what his circumstances were. A child/ children needs BOTH parents.. I hate the way the NRP is treated by everyone…
It’s a shame every PWC doesn’t think like you Susan Fairbrother – many mothers stop access purely because they don’t like the father.
Money cant buy love, material things in life dont matter, kids are for life, kids need both parents, at the end of the day if a woman has had a child just for money and the bloke doesnt want to be a dad he shouldt have it forced on him, the ones that do want to be a dad should have the same rights as mums and shouldt be forced to keep paying out just so they “might” get to see their kids, its not fair when the PWC calls all the shots, this law needs to change and fast
@csahell….my ex is the pwc father and he stopped access….even when he “allowed it” it was for an hour contact. Seems to be if the pwc is spiteful, gender doesnt matter. My case a lil more complex because my baby was taken and adopted i believed. Now I found he had our child all the long and decided to put in for csa. If state take baby from you, should you be liable? Apparently so according to csa.
Anyway sorry OP…if your ex is still angry or bitter and generally spiteful, then its certainly a likelihood. Especially when she can use this to make a drama and then act all righteous, and go for the full custody/greater csa payments….
if the NRP if it happens to be a male didn’t want to be a dad then they could and should have worn a condom or kept it in their pants
hmmm not always as clear cut as that amanda. sometimes contraception fails, or the woman is not any BC despite saying so, regardless of length of relationship…it happens. If a woman wants to get pregnant, she will. If she wants to stay pregnant, she will. Man has little or no say in final decision. So from there, yes, I would agree that men….you gotta be more careful. Find out your womans cycle and learn it….on them fertile days and a week either side, you are especially careful. I dont use BC because it totally messes with me, and no surprises 😉 but then Im not after getting pregnant for cash handouts…too interested in making my own career from not being a baby machine ;p
Money cant buy love but it does buy the things a child does need like a roof over their heads and food in their bellys. When your a parent you are a parent for life you cant just pick and choose when it suits you to be a parent. Yes children deserve to have contact with both parents and to be financially supported by both parents in an ideal world this would happen amicably but unfortunately the world isn’t ideal and there are parents out there who just don’t give a stuff so there is a need for courts and for CSA.