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You horrid jealous person, you should be pushing your son to see his father, or is money more important to greedy women like you! You should be ashamed no wonder your the ex!!!! Get a grip of yourself
Every dad has a right to see there kids dont matter what u think or him or what he done to u
Just because the kids dad is having a kid to sumone eles its nothing to do with u at all his son will come round to it if u let him
He has as much right as you do love, it’s not a game.
do u have a right to see your child.
Your child has the right to not see him if that’s his choice. Contact and maintenance are two separate issues.
Break ups are never easy and it’s even more unfair to punish the kids,u should let him see his dad and maybe u could both come to some arrangements about child care/maintenance,good luck and I hope u do right by all.
Seriously ?
What if your child turns around tomorrow and don’t wish to ever see you again? Is that his choice?
if hes not an abusive father to that child/teen then yes…and you need to facilitate that
Best not getting csa involved you have to pay initially to get them involved then they will take 4%of what he gives them best sorting out between you using the csa calculator as that is what the government are trying to get parents to do. You don’t have to like your ex but you should always encourage contact because when your child is older he may resent you. I never say nasty things about my lads dad it will be his decision when he is mature enough to decide whether he wants to see him plus he will be having a new sister or brother which he may want to meet eventually when he isn’t angry no matter what you think they will still be related l. Hope you can sort it amicably
I can definitely see why your son is angry I’m in a similar position mine are very angry and confused ! My eldest is 12 this week and has told his dad that he either makes more of an effort to see him and his brothers or he doesn’t want to see him at all (only seen his dad 5 times this year). He’s old enough now to remember all of the broken promises I would never say he could never see his dad but I really don’t want my children to get hurt any more !
My boys aged 7 @ 4, had no contact with their dad and he didn’t pay a penny towards their up bringing. I never stopped him seeing his boys n I never asked for any money, it was his choice not to see them or pay for them. If it wasn’t for him you wouldn’t have your boy!Just be thankful that your child has a dad n that he does pay for him! My boys dad died last month and they’ll never get to know him n it saddens me so much. So stop being a selfish woman n do the right thing!!!
Perhaps look in to somewhere your son and his dad can go for mediation don’t just let your son give up on his dad there will only be regrets later in life
The child is not a fair ground ride ! The child was born of two parents not just one ! If you cannot respect your own child’s rights to having both parents ! Then you should not have had any children ! You had a choice your child does not ! GROW UP !
what a fine example to set, I wish more women were like you.
Well i feel like my son’s dad is letting my son down after 14yrs and my son is still intitled to his csa payments as he always got from his dad for his own pocket and not mine but cause his dad left and having another kid why should my son his dads first born suffer for his dads shelfishness and his dirty affairs.