I phone the csa on a weekly basis
Ive been dealing with the csa for over 6 years now,at first they seemed to do what is their job, correct then after time ive been made to feel like im the person wanting to hide from my responsibilitys eg supporting my/our children.
My ex partner left me and my children and for 3 years he paid the money due, however since then he has taken some advice off some low life and quit his job and starting working for himself as a ‘director’ and has put everything into his new partners name. so for 3 years i have received nothing because apprenrenlty the csa cant take money off him as a director. he drives a posh car, holidays 2 times a year yet im due to accept £2.50 a week, which i still havnt received. Why cant the csa be on my side, on my kids side. my kids didnt ask to be born, me and their father made a joint decision to have them yet he has choosen to walk away from them and nothing is done about it. he if choose to take a bank loan out he would be forced to pay it back whether he had money or not. why is he not forced to support his children.
I phone the csa on a weekly basis, everytime getting told something different, for a month now they have said they are waiting on my ex sending in his details, when i phone this morning they say they havent even got any contact details for him so no work has been done on my case for over a month, infact he said i dont even have a case worker anymore…… im at my wits end.
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You said “why can’t the csa be on my side on my kids side” well in a nutshell it’s very simple.First of all what you need to understand about the csa is IT absolutely does not give a damm about the kids,IF it did,it would not cause the hell and upset and ruin and poverty in parents life’s,neither would it….at a drop of a hat and without any guilt or thought on how it would effect a fathers or mothers relationship with the kids, and that is force the sale of your home if you are in debt purely because of them robbing you blind.
Secondly because your lowlife ex goes out of his way not to pay by registering as self employed therefore can declare himself what he earns and therefore making it very difficult for the csa to get money out of him,and so the csa can’t be bothered with him and even less for you since you are the one claiming.in their eyes your case is pointless because they can’t rob anyone of money.
Instead they pick on people like me,one of thousands whom do not shirk or try avoiding paying for their kids so we make up the short fall….they will hound us and take our last penny if they could.people like me are not against the basic principal of the system if it was fair fair fair and not unjust unjust unjust and soooo corrupt.they are a law to themselfs and think nothing is above them.I am robbed by this scum of £320 each month for a daughter that was taken away from me by her cheating mother and now rarely see and then only when it’s convenient for her,and this is my reward…rich don’t you think? And she claims all the benefits under the sun,claims as a single parent when the guy she left me for works full time and lives with her.so I am subsidising their household as well as trying to keep my own head above water.and did you know..the csa DO NOT take any outgoings,mortgage,bills,into account when assessing you,even debt that was a direct result out of the marriage..ie..honeymoon,home upgrades,new car for the ex,etc etc, but NONE of that counts,she just walks away and leaves me to clean up the mess and she starts fresh again with a new man and still picks me clean each month.
So there’s a side of this that relates to thousands of NRP’s and normally the father,it’s rare…the PWC normally the mother has to put up with this nasty organisation…it is heavily biased towards the mother and us dads are branded as criminals by them the moment a claim is made on them.
CSA is evil and the mother who leaves the father or kicks him out onlly get themselves to blame. I am against the very principle of the CSA. Its a oppression and tyranncial. it brands the father as a criminal, the day the mother makes a claim. No court case, no evidence, nothing, you pay up or else. Start a new life, forget it. get a new woman forget it, See yoiur kids forget it. The csa and mothers could not care less.
If the mother canot look after the kids, ie finanacially or morally, its should go to the father as default, after all he has the money. This is how it worked for thousands of years. indeed this is how works in most of the work excpet europe and usa etc. Why because with out the man being tide to the family, he is not going to spend is money that he worked hard for, if he has no say, cannot see his kids or if he gets his house taken off him. The countries that are soo poor would not be able to feed the starving millions. this is why in africa when society breaks down its the women and kids who suffer first.
it use to be the case a woman had to show that she is going to be a good wife and motehr to a man who wwas willing to provide her a home, now its the other way round and its a mess. the natural order wil come back soon as this tyranncial system canot last