I just about get my on my feet and they take £565 away from me every month

July 25, 2013

Ok I left the army 3 years ago because of my ex who I had a child with. We split when he turned 1 she got pregnant 3 months later by somebody else and had a daughter who shes no longer with.

I havent seen my son for almost 3 yrs ive tried banging the door ringing her work shes just a total bunny boiler. She says I walked out of his life, I didnt she kicked me out of his. I walked out of her life.

Anyway the csa have finally caught up with me im still at my mums almost got up on my feet n just about to move out with a new decent girl and booom 565 a month these robbing bastards want.

Im all for paying and supportin my child by why should I if she dont want me in his life. she should have no right to my fucking money. By the time the tax man and csa have bummed me every 4 wks I be aswell not work.

I seriously with an honest deep papassion hate this country. If I take her to court she gets legal aid its all one sided all woman have to do is open there legs n they get paid out. Blokes have to pay everything yet the gpvernment will pay everyhing to help the woman then screw us in the long run.

This has since put me off considerin having any more money. She dont want me to be a dad yet she wants my money I felt like going down and bootin her door down and kidnappin ny son but thats nt the right thing to do ill jus let her win.

Swannin around with my fuckin money whatever as soon as I get the chance im gonna take my last shit in this country and leave. Its always 5 steps forward and 10 back this country doesnt do anybody any favors it pisses me off.

Sorry for my language by the way.

Comments

  • CSA warrior says:

    Come on your a soldier its just a new style of combat

    ok theres is not much you can do about the CSA to my mind they are without doubt the most powerful organisation and unacountable orgainsation in the world but they like all big things have weak points.

    Your kid however that I can help with. the advantage that you have is u know where she works. DO NOT DO ANYTHING STUPID. what you know do is go to your local court head to the magistrates court and ask to make a section 8 contact order. You can represent yourself with absolute ease. once this is done have the documents sent to her works address. she willl have to attend court. You can also make an application for a seek and find order ( or something like that.) this is an order that instructs those named on the order to disclose your ex`s where about or go to jail for contempt of court.
    in court you justhave tyo remeber S1 childrens act and that all children havea right to see there dad. you may have to spend a little time ina contact centre but just hold out and be patient. when you feel things are going well either go back to coutr and vary the original order or negotiate with the ex.

    Legal aid has been changed dso unless there is a child abuse issue i dont thisnk that she can get legal aid. Even if she did with or without a solicitor you cant really lose the best her solicitor could do is negotiate and insist that contact be in a contact centre but they cannot deny contact. Its the childs right not the mothers S1 childrens act 1989 the needs of the child are paramount.

    the language is excusable. Not everyman is blessed with this information that is why the system seems so skewed aginst the men. but I have only ever heard of 2 cases where a contact oder has been refused and in both casess the dad had previously abused the child in some form. My ex went for a zero contact oder I enjoyed the look on her face when the judge granted contact. It was a well earned smile

    Good luck

  • Darren says:

    Hi ,and welcome to the club ,One way an ex partner can bend it in her favour is having a cafcass officer involved who will speak to the children and advices the judge to the best course of action and in my case supervised visits with my ex partner where granted for the first two ,Anyway turned up she was out phone call later told to go away back to court where she defended she was unwell and tried to set another date ,
    At the end of the day I did try to see my children at a contact centre as I new what was going to happen but she found a loop hole ,So good luck to anyone who want to take on uk law plus the csa I am now 42 with no house or car and minimal contact with the children,I was offered by a friend to move out to the USA with job 10 Years ago but I stayed because I believed in justice so please if you have the chance and you had a child with some one with mental problems and in my case gave me std as well then run and don’t stop running until you find a second life there are some good lady’s out there ,I have made my last ever payment to the csa 12 years of dealing with vermin and come out the other side and stayed in the uk with proper hate of the system so if I had the chance again I would have gone to usa at least there you can have a gun an shoot the ex wife hell yeah.

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