I haven’t been contacted in 10 years – should I have to pay now?
12 years ago a girl knocked on me door and said I was the father of her child as I had slept with this girl. I said ok so I started to see the child on a weekend basis for atleast 1 year but when it she started seeing another man and he was coming round her house on the same day as me she dint like it and said the child wasn’t mine – fair enough. So I moved on with me life and left her to it.
she dint contact me what so ever as she moved on and had other children. Anyway, 10 years on after no contact cos she moved she has now moved back in to my area and now states i’m the father again. the she has been in contact with the csa and there now saying I have to pay.
Where do I stand with this I have my own children and wife now and it seems she can do what she whants when it suits her
4 thoughts on “I haven’t been contacted in 10 years – should I have to pay now?”
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only if she can prov u the dad get dna
Jeremy Kyle
this just proves once again how some woman just use men as a cash income when it suits them and knowing they can get away with it because the fucks as the csa allow this kind of carry on
how the fuck can this slut just decide you are the father one min and not the next is sad,she obviously has no respect for you or the child, its moraly wrong that women like this have the csa on their side no questions asked. This skank don’t give a shit what bloke is the father, if she can bullshit them as and when it suits her. one bloke moves on so she back to you and expecting you to give her an income,and the csa don’t give a shit.
get a dna test done mate,hope the child is not yours then you can tell her to fuck off
gonk
I would contact the woman and tell her seeing as she is wanting money you want proof the child is yours, the CSA will help you but only when you have made complaint after complaint, it’s about time women like this were stopped, some women go for the men who they have slept with knowing they are working for easy money, make sure the kid is yours before you get slapped in the face with realisation that you have been taken for a financial ride