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I have proof, but they’re taking my ex’s word for it
I have been charged for £600 for a period i did not pay. The reason why I did not pay through this period was because i had moved back with my ex partner. the payments were coming straight from my wages and i had changed jobs as well.
I have spoken to CSA and they have advised that because i did not cancel i am still liable to pay. I have now split from my partner and having to pay the extra amount. I advised that i have proof to support that i was living with her at the time but they advised that my ex partner disagrees and they are taking her word for it.
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If you have proof make a copy of it and supply it to the csa with a letter marked as a complaint then go and see your mp….your ex has committed fraud”if what you say is correct. If the pwc had the claim in its only her that can close it.
That’s common! They will always take the mothers word as the truth! When I told them how many nights my kids stay with me! I was told my ex disagrees! I said how do I prove that they stay with me! They said to provide a diary of dates and times and they would make decision based on both party’s evidence! Which I did! However they still refused my dates as evidence! I asked if they could come round to my house and physically see my kids are at the house? They refused!!! So effectively I am having money fraudulently taken from me and there’s not a thing I can do about it!
Why can’t these women stand on their own two feet. Why do they feece their ex for everything. I hav never ever taken or asked for anything. I really feel sorry for these poor guys who do anything and everything for their kids.. Especially Military guys.
As simon Scott points out you are not alone in this one. you will have to make the complaint a level 2 complaint. after which the CSA wash there hands of you. I will suggest that you go to your MP and put your complaint to the parliametary ombudsman. They do kick ass
good luck
Well said dawn lavers that exactly me
I haven’t seen my children since November and my ex thinks it’s best that I’m not in their life what frustrates me is that they don’t want fathers involved but find it acceptable to still take money from them. I agree with paying money to main parent but how comes this can be forced over a phone call but to see your kids takes months of court visits. Some things are just not right.