I have a bill for £20,000 even though my son is now 22

In the year 1999, close to the new year, my ex wife started an affair with someone i9 believed to be a friend, he had served with me in the forces and had a wife who was pregnant. On the eve of the new year for the millenium, i was asked to provide a karaoke for a pub, for a decent sum of money so agreed and my ex wife would join me during the evening with my son who was 9 years old. When my ex wife failed to turn up, i returned home to find she had gone leaving only a letter and the wedding video in the player. her wedding dress was hanging up in the bedroom in plain sight. After reading the letter, everything fell into place.

I left it a short time then visited her parents to try to find out what had gone on only to be told that i would get whats coming to me. Eventually i found out that she had een seeing this bloke for some time. I waited one evening to see for myself and after confronting them, was assaulted by the bloke and even tho two security personel saw the assault,lice seemed to lose the p the paperwork in reference to the case against him.

I fought for my son in court and was basically ignored as they gave my ex custody of my son stateing that i should see him every other weekend and half of school holidays, a thing that never occured properly as my ex would send theice to the house stateing i was not treating him wel poll enough. It was not too long a period before the csa began causeing me grief and still are. i have been paying what i agreed and have been told now that the bill is up to 20,000 even though my son is 22 and my ex now works for the csa so i am told,. i was firstly told the bill was 13,000 but it has now increased causeing me a lot of distress as i believe that it was her that brought about the resentment and deciept that i have been punished for..