I don’t want to do a DNA test

August 26, 2014

I have made a claim for child maintenance but my sons father has requested a dna i am very upset by this as we was together for 2 years and he walked out for no reason when I was pregnant.

I don’t want to do the dna as my ex is only doing it so he can try and take my baby away from me if I don’t they close the claim but if I find it hard to support my baby on my own and change my mind will I be able to make a claim for child maintenance at a later date

Comments

  • Lisa says:

    If you don’t do the DNA test now they will assume he isn’t the parent and next time you go to open a case a DNA test will have to be carried out before any assessment is made, so he either isn’t the father and your trying it on or do the DNA test and secure some support for your child! Most importantly it’s proof of who your child’s father is

  • roschelle says:

    Its all very well just saying do the test I know he’s the father as he’s the only person I have slept with in the last 4 years and my baby is only 3months old but he is trying to make me look bad in order to take my baby off me I have 3 older children he abandoned when he left us the looked at him like a father as theirs doesn’t bother now I don’t want problems between my children when they ain’t getting support from the man thy look at as a father when the baby is

  • Pb says:

    I would recommend you do the DNA test. Why would he walk out on you then try and take your baby away?

  • roschelle says:

    He walked out on us because his mother said if he stayed with myself and my children he would get totally cut off from his family and since they paid for every like his car and other bills he choose them and now they want my baby too

  • roschelle says:

    I’m happy to not have the support what I was asking is if in future I struggle can I open a case again as then I know I would have to do the DNA but I want to hold out as long as possible in doing the DNA as if he can build a relationship with my older 3 children treat them like his own then walk out what’s saying he wouldn’t do that to our baby he wasn’t willing to take me to hospital appointments while I was pregnant and showed no interest so why now should he have the chance to hurt my children again

  • roschelle says:

    I’m not stopping him knowing who his dad is I just refuse the DNA due to the fact his father is insistent in making my life harder why should I have to consult him in everything I wish to do with my child didn’t he give up that right when he walked out and left my other 3 children heartbroken

  • roschelle says:

    Well he isn’t on the birth certificate and clearly your all a bunch of twats that can’t understand where I’m coming from I couldn’t care I would rather everyone think I’m a slapper then him getting the DNA test done and getting to be involved in my baby’s life when he hurt my other 3 children

  • gonk says:

    if hes expected to pay you money for the child, hes entitled to know hes the the real father whether you like it or not
    gonk

  • gonk says:

    “why should I have to consult him in everything I wish to do with my child ”
    YOUR child?? so why should he have to give you anything??
    you see, as usual you woman always refer to the kid as YOURS, many of you use it as a weapon with words like “you will never see MY kid again. If the child IS his? then you have nothing to worry about have you ? get a dna test and be done with it twat.
    gonk

  • roschelle says:

    Fuck off gonk you are the twat I never said I want any money and he knows he is the father 100% he only wants the DNA to gain access to a child that he was happy to let die inside me when I was pregnant so go sort yourself out and deal with your own problems before you think you know my life

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