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Stop having kids if you can’t afford to pay for them ! And stopping payments for your kids just because you ex is argumentative is a terrible excuse not to pay for the lives you help create !
Just silly paying her cash as you don’t have proof you have been giving her money for your kids. No one to blame by yourself. Should have kept doing bank transfer as that’s proof you have been giving money.
To the author of the post. It’s your duty to take card and provide for all your offspring. Why should your child from your ex not be provided for just because you and her had an argument. That’s you taking it out on your child. If you can’t afford to pay for your child you shouldn’t have carried on having more. Get your self the snip. Do right by all of your children not just the 1s who live with you. You got yourself into this mess now it’s time to man up n sort it out!!
If you cant afford kids dont have them. They are not free and get more expensive as they get older! Im lucky as my sons father buys him stuff when he is at his dads so takes the pressure of me alot so im glad my son sees his dad. You need to step up and get a grip of it. Jk says put something on the end of it and stop creating innocent lifes
I notice its all women thats having a go….as the mother of a family y should my children do without for his ex kids ALL KIDS ARE IMPORTANT and the amount paid to the other kid although 15% for 1 kid he has 6 at home they gavw to be paid for too if its not bad enough the new kids are expected to do without they also take a portion of each childs family credit even tho the ex kid would get his own they steal my kids money too…..n the exs complain they so hard done too try watchin yr kids do without threw no fault of yr own to pay sum money grabbin control freak……u women need to back off im on dads side there the ones with the raw deal
So who should pay for your ‘other’ kids?
Me?
Other fathers who pay for their kids?
Pensioners?
The unemployed?
I have just bought a dog.
Who should pay for its’ upkeep?