I am on the verge of another breakdown – we need help

I a stuck. My partner of two years suffers severe post traumatic stress disorder, he has tried to keep in contact with his daughter to his ex wife but she will not allow contact.

He has been severely ill since2008 when serving in Iraq. When he left the RAF he still paid money out of his ESA £40 per week and is still paying off loans take to pay for part of her college course.

He now works as with PTSD the best way to treat is is to get emotional and financial stability which since I met him two years ago I have helped him to do. We heard from the CSA a month ago, I am his rep as he is too ill to cope with them. I am also heavily pregnant.

They asked for a ridiculous amount out of his wages and I complained as they hadn’t taken my child living in his house into account, £64 per week, out of £400 which without exaggeration will mean he won’t be able to afford fuel, electricity, council tax, rent, etc which takes hi out of financial stability into instability and right back to square one suicidal ex serviceman that no one in the country seems to want to help.

He was front line bomb disposal and now struggles to maintain a normal semblance of life. I explained to CSA I complained about their attitude and I have just come off the phone to someone in their complaints department who when I explained AGAIN the circumstances she was not interested, when asked how she thought it was fair to deprive three children of their dad affect my unborn child with the stress and how would he pay if he’s dead,., she responded well we would take it directly from his pay packet…

I. Am at my wits end I have written to the ICE I have written to MPs I am on the verge of another breakdown and cannot tell hi m what is going on for fear of his relapse. He wants to pay just an affordable amount that won’t leave us homeless!!!! Help please!