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U want him to pay u more than some one who works hard on minimum wage?
Have a look at what the Gov pay to keep a child now look at what csa want???? 238 per week? Are you fuckin mental? I pay 570 a month and even thats rippin the arse out of me.
Skank
phone your ex yourself unless you got the CSA involved just to annoy him?
Do you have any communication with your ex Joanne? If so, I would ask him if he has paid because the CSA are renowned for taking money from the NRP and then telling the PWC they have not received the payment so that it will cause friction between parents.. and so that they can hold on to the money to gain interest on it… it’s one of their many underhand tactics!!
CSA staff lie consistently and some have been sent to prison for stealing directly from NRP’s!!
If there is no way of finding out the truth then you should raise a complaint with the CSA… good luck!!
Hi,your ex partner will end up having to pay all the arrears this year or the next unless he moves aboard and how do you expect him to pay that amount per week ,
As anon replyed do the kind thing speak to your ex arrange an contact order plus regular mantince and stop the csa making his life hell.
Get real and get a job not sponge off others. He works hard for his money and you want to take it off him. Grow up.. If you cant look after your kids the dont have any…simple. You cant make him pay the price off his kids when you got then. Try and let him have the kids and im sure he will spend on them. Dont piss him off and contact the csa as the csa just make money off him and your lucky to have any… Work. Like the fathers have to. He dont ask you for money for not having his kids……..us fathers want comp off mothers but we cant so get off your fucking fat ass and get a fucking job. If you cant get a job the give your kids to someone who can look after them..job done….like this if you think im right…..cheers. Now
How much a week? That is so wrong that’s prob more than he actually earns a week, what is he meant to live off afterwards?. I get thirty pound a week for 4 kids which I think is fair, and even before csa were involved I asked for just five pound a week from him for four kids but my ex said if I want a penny from him to go to csa so I did, he shot himself in the foot really but I still would not expect him to pay over two hundred a week,
give the woman a break! if thats wot the useless father who wnt pay 4 his kids has been told 2 pay! then he shud pay it!! u dnt no the ladys life story! so dnt judge her!
Shut up wendy. How much do it say for a kid to live on a week. Im sure if the fathers go to prison or have a driving licence took off him or if he was unemployed that would be ok then. So y pay more than he should and the csa do ask the mothers to stop the fathers contact with kids to get more money. My bitch of an ex has her money her wifes money our sons money from dla and child benefit and y do she need my money when she has more money than wot i can earn in the first place. Nice system the csa are coz they make the kids go agianst the fathers and make the mothers have our money when i know it goes on drink drugs and her partners toys….
Fucking lo life get off your aese and gwt a job and stop asking eveeyone else to oeovide for your kids. Yoi make me Fucking sick
Fucking phone
Thanks for advice. To the people having a go I don’t expect him to pay this CSA do!!! I ain’t no skank and my ex abused my daughter so how dare u have a go at me!!!
Yet another example as to why this ‘out of control’ bunch of muppets should be closed down.
It’s a failing system that is totally out of control. they make it up as they go along!
Your ex may well be being ripped to fuck by the CSA cockroaches, the fact that the scum are paying you nothing means nothing…it’s all about money for the Treasury, this maggot Government needs funding for it’s oversea war in Afghanistan, don’t you know?
Think Sally and Wendy might be the only decent human beings on here!
How about the poor PWC who get ripped off, not just the NRP!
Stop blaming everyone else but the person who is not supporting the child whether it be PWC or NRP. Yes the CSA cant handle the situations with either party playing the system and letting their children suffer, child abuse really.
But its the other party not supporting the children. Get real you lot and get rid of the chip off your shoulder, moaning on here isnt sorting out your situations.
Most of you on here are nuts I was just looking for advice I do work I’m a nurse I work nightshift then come home from work take my kids to school grab a couple of hrs sleep, do housework etc then pick my kids up. So how about stop slagging me ok!!! Like I said I don’t expect him to pay this CSA calculated it not me!!! After what he has put my daughter thro f**k him. I know there is some decent fathers out there being ripped off I get that completely but my ex was a useless abusive father who thro the courts has been told to stay away for us!!! So don’t judge a person until you know the full story I just wanted a bit of advice
@Karen and Wendy
You 2 need to get fucking real.How the fuck does a normal working father live after paying out nearly a grand a month before hes even begun to pay bills and essential living cost,rent,morgage,utilitiy etc…But then people like the man hater Karen couldn’t give a shit, so im bashing my head against a wall where shes concerned.
I, Like most people on here with chips on their shoulder as Karen brands us, have no problem with supporting our kids, but we don’t under this vile agency..we support and line the mothers pockets by the very way our money is forced from us and we having NO SAY on how or even if its spent on the child. WRONG WRONG WRONG, also NO outgoings,bills,morgage,living cost are taken into account when a nrp is assessed. How the fuck is that fair? How the fuck is it fair that a mother can have all the benefits and still get money from the nrp? where is her contribution to a child that both parents brought into this world. what about the pwc that has a new full time working partner…a very wealthy partner..WHY is she not assessd on her circumstances? she could have all the trappings of a rich life and yet her ex lives in poverty because of the amount he still has to pay her..wheres the fairness in that Karen ? mmmmm you don’t give a shit do you…you done well out of winnings from the tax payer haven’t you.
Gonk
It’s not about ‘child support’. it’s about ‘Treasury Support’, does anyone really believe that the lying, coniving, scumbag cunts in this self-serving redundant cockroach Government actually tell the truth anymore??
This shows what is wrong with the CSA, DO NOT EXPECT Symphaphy from NRP’s!
@Joanne
that’s convenient Joanne that you don’t expect him to pay this much,the csa calculated it. But you be more than happy to take it if it was on the table and from a abusive deadbeat useless father that put your daughter through it whatever that might have been and it don’t sound good AND perhaps a good reason to want nothing from such a vile man if you had any morals…but no, “fuck him” you said…but not quite..I will still take his money, or was that what you meant by the the words “fuck him” ? If I had such an abusive wife/partner like that ? I would want NOTHING from her NOTHING. You want vengeance because you are angry and bitter..pure and simple.
Gonk
@Joanne
forgot to mention…funny how you only bring up how abusive and useless your ex is after getting so many negative comments, back peddling perhaps to justify your posting in the first place….you are right..people don’t know your background,life story etc etc …..but if you had mentioned the abuse in your original posting then maybe people might have been a little more understanding and less of the negative remarks. How do you expect people to react when you don’t tell the full pic. seems to me his being abusive and useless couldn’t have been so bad since you forgot to mention it in the first instance.Oh and don’t come back with “that’s none of our business” because my answer to that is why come on here then airing your washing expecting sympathy when you don’t tell the full story.
gonk