I am a woman and a non resident parent

June 3, 2011

I am a nrp and have been making monthly payments to the ex without fail as he comes and collects it. I have also taken out loans to help him. As he is screwed up in the head and heartless he has gone to csa and told them i don’t give him anything! I now have a liability order, in very much debt and alleged arrears!

I also have two children who live with me and they are wanting details of not only my income but tax credits aswell! I don’t mind paying for my daugher but he’s literally raping my bank account!

I would also like to say that i have been trying to seek out groups and join as a nrp but as i am female they think i’m a spy! I have tried twice to join csahellhelp on facebook but got declined and i even emailed a member on there to explain my situation but to no avail. What other groups can i join as i am at my wits end. Thankyou for reading.

Comments

  • martin dell says:

    i understand how you feel
    hand no more oney over to him
    did you pay cash or cheque any proof you have paid the money
    do everything in writing to the csa scum
    write to them throught your mp do not write to them direct as all you are doing is been raped by the csa and handing the complaint back to the rapists
    send everything record derlivery
    phone debt help line very cool people on that end of the fone
    start learn your rights aka common law etc
    apply to courts to have the liability order removed
    do not back down this scum will need to learn the hard way its a long proccess but they do dig themself a grave to lie in

  • Angela Taylor says:

    Thanks Martin i am in the middle of digging out bank statements and getting help. Thing that really annoys me the most is when we split up before i had to claim income support and when i was interviewed by the income support people many years ago they asked me for my ex’s details and i lied to them back then and said he paid for food and bought my daughter the things she needed and that csa was not to get involved! The man said to me that, that was a wise move as a lot of people were commiting suicide and leaving there jobs including police officers because they were forced into poverty! I wouldn’t wish the csa on anyone!

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