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He spends money like it’s water
I am writing again as i dont under stand how no one can help me
I have a 4year old son and his father is not intrested one bit like i said before he use to pay £5 a week when he wos claiming benifits now he dosent nor does he work but yet he has always got money in his pocket to spend on what he likes like his new child and girlfriend yet my son go with out he is getting money from some were and i want it looked into as am not having any more having to struggle bringing my and his child up when he spaend money like it is water am not very happy with the lack of help
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You get cb and ctc dont stress over it
Or a job
Yes the lady could get a job. She might already have one as we dont know this. However this doesnt take away the fact that the father is running away from his responsibility. There is a child whom still needs to be brought up emotianally amd financially xx
Maybe hes running voz he knows csa will destroy him
Rather worrying on what your getting or what his spending let the bloke see his child and spend his money on him/her that way! You will only buy cigarettes or booze
Or nights out or false nails hair ectendions etc…. what he spends is non of yr concern……hes not a wallet for u
@CSAHell let the fathet he his son and i am sure he will spend money on him, that’s better than whining
Seriously the best way for you to build a life is to forget about him. His kids is his responsibility and you or any women shouldn’t have to run after a man to face their responsibility (I’m
Saying that because usually it’s the mother that sacrifice her time & life for the child). This child didn’t come alone. However move on and build a future for yourself and your child.
Did it ever occur to you that maybe it’s his girlfriend that is working and that’s where he gets his money?
If your seriously struggling are you getting what your entitled to i.e tax credits etc?
If he isn’t interested then your better off without him and go it alone, which you’re doing anyway…or are you more concerned with his life and getting bitter about it?
I have 2 children who’s bio dad hasn’t bothered with his kids in years and truthfully it’s his loss, my gain. I don’t get no support but manage fine without it.
Blah blah blah me me me me is all I’m hearing jealousy and money and nasty pwc are the root of all evil
Wow, the prejudice and lack of support is astounding.
It is hard not to be bitter when you’re struggling and he seems to be having the high life, but try to draw a line as all it does is eat you up. Your little one is 4 now so try to get a job, if you haven’t got one (you may well have) it gives you a wider network of friends if nothing else.
Delete anything like Facebook where he can rub your nose in it. Practically; ask the benefit office, or Citizens advice for things like free school meals or uniform vouchers, it all helps even it feels like charity.
You’re the one who gets the cuddle at the end of the day, enjoy that. xx