He spends money like it’s water

September 14, 2014

I am writing again as i dont under stand how no one can help me

I have a 4year old son and his father is not intrested one bit like i said before he use to pay £5 a week when he wos claiming benifits now he dosent nor does he work but yet he has always got money in his pocket to spend on what he likes like his new child and girlfriend yet my son go with out he is getting money from some were and i want it looked into as am not having any more having to struggle bringing my and his child up when he spaend money like it is water am not very happy with the lack of help


  • jo says:

    Did it ever occur to you that maybe it’s his girlfriend that is working and that’s where he gets his money?

    If your seriously struggling are you getting what your entitled to i.e tax credits etc?

    If he isn’t interested then your better off without him and go it alone, which you’re doing anyway…or are you more concerned with his life and getting bitter about it?

    I have 2 children who’s bio dad hasn’t bothered with his kids in years and truthfully it’s his loss, my gain. I don’t get no support but manage fine without it.

  • Lisa says:

    Blah blah blah me me me me is all I’m hearing jealousy and money and nasty pwc are the root of all evil

  • Stephanie says:

    Wow, the prejudice and lack of support is astounding.

    It is hard not to be bitter when you’re struggling and he seems to be having the high life, but try to draw a line as all it does is eat you up. Your little one is 4 now so try to get a job, if you haven’t got one (you may well have) it gives you a wider network of friends if nothing else.

    Delete anything like Facebook where he can rub your nose in it. Practically; ask the benefit office, or Citizens advice for things like free school meals or uniform vouchers, it all helps even it feels like charity.

    You’re the one who gets the cuddle at the end of the day, enjoy that. xx

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