Greed over money makes people use children in a horrific manner
Where do I start.
Money has been the route of all evil in my case. Along with my ex and his wife…..
We split up 8 years ago. I had my 3 kids with me 80% of time. My ex in a well paid job, didnt give me a penny for 2 years. Nearly lost house but my father saved the day.
Ex did his own thing and put his mates first for years. When it was his contact time of two nights sometimes he would not even see the kids and drop them off at his parents.
After two years I started to get about 50% of the CSA calculation. I have a bew partner and a child by now.
My ex marries a woman with mental health problems. ( according to my exes father ) this coincided with the death of my exes mother, which chsnged the events of all our lives.
My ex then started on the mental abuse and parental alienation until 12 months ago whilst I went on my first girls weekend away in my like, he locked my kids up in his flat and refused to let me see them, or even let them go to school for 3 days I made app in court which he then responded to with the horrendous lies which involved the police and social services…all of which investigations were dropped. Meanwhile my exes wife was Makjn numerous ridiculous harrassment complaints to the police about all of my family so that they could build a driving in court.
I couldn’t afford a solicitor. So self represented.
….now as I look back just before my ex snatched my kids he did everything in his power to make the days and nights he had the kids more in his favour. ( i thought he was just being more involved) To this day my kids have been totally alienated from all tbe friends they had at school and even my mum and dad who carec for them dearly.
My ex has now, which I know is within his rights applied for CSA help in claiming against me… This has to be the stab in the back as I only earn 400 a month but as I have a child I get working tax credits so they take this into account. So I have now no choice but to move out of my home, and sell my car. I simply can’t afford to live I miss my girls with every best if my heart and I can’t sleep thinking and worrying about them. It is as if they have died and I am grieving every day.
What is this works coming to when greed over money makes people, men and women, use children in this horrific manor….I don’t know.
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Si Giraffe Housley liked this on Facebook.
Hi Sarah… this is the normal life of an NRP and our government won’t do anything about it…. money is the route of all evil but while CSA staff promise PWC more money, they will always exist…
There are terrible mothers and terrible fathers out there and those seem to be the people the CSA help… Greedy PWC who put money before a good relationship between child and NRP… and selfish NRP’s who refuse to pay ANY money for their kids when they can afford it…
The CSA criteria is 100% unfair and has driven people to kill themselves, give up their jobs (as they can’t afford CSA payments and bills)…. the CSA force a wedge between parents and money is the tool they use…. it’s terrible…
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