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Going round in circles
I have been waiting two years for any money from my ex partner. He told them that he is living off his savings while looking for a job, he was in arrears before that so they sent bailiffs around but he wasn’t in so it was passed back to the CSA and they are looking into it again. I know he has a job but when I rang and told them they said I have to wait for him to tell them.
I feel like I am going round in circles. I keep ringing them but just keep getting told a different story every time I ring by a different person. I would have given up if not for my sons sake don’t see why he should pay his share.
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Good for him. How do you know he is lying?
Csa can check through the hrmc to see if he’s working, this can take about 12 weeks, if it comes back he’s not working you’ll have to accept he’s telling you the truth but if he is working then they will go for a deo.
And what about his sons sake. No mention about if he sees him or if you let him or if you even care? What about the bailiffs taking his possessions ? What then if he sees his son and can’t even let him watch tv since he sure as hell won’t have any money to take his son out by th time you and the CSA have finished with him.
Seems to me from reading this, all you are interested in is the money you should be getting. Another money grabber springs to mind……oh wait a min……let me guess….you are now gonna come back with a reply to this..telling me I know nothing about you and your situation? Very true but then if you don’t tell all as it really is? Then the
Iickes as myself will come to conclusions that you might not like or expect? So don’t complain. Tell the whole story and not just the money side of it that you are so hard done by.
Gonk
I have been trying to get him to see his son. I ring him at least once a week to ask him to come. The money is between him and me I would never let that interfere with their relationship. He has only been once this year. Told me he was coming on his birthday and my son waited but he never showed up. The same thing happened at Christmas to. I need his financial help, but my son needs a father to, we are getting neither.
Oh and I know he is working because he rang to tell me.I know some father’s want to support their children both emotionally and financial, my ex is not one of them.