Fathers should man up and take responsibility
Ok… here is a question for you guys (baby daddies)… how much should the father of the child actually pay? Because, lets be honest here… it takes two to create that child and I am pretty sure the mother of the child should not have to be the only one taking on the whole responsibility?
In all honesty, I do believe both parties should have equal rights… BUT… both sides must take on the responsiblity equally too. Having a child is far from cheap.
Fathers should have more rights, but they also SHOULD man up and be bit more realistic about this whole thing. IF the baby mother is a moocher, then fair enough, you have all the rights to complain… IF, however, you are a whining little biatch then shaddup.
As they say…don’t want .be a daddy, be wise and condomise, foolz.
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there are some great comment on this site and its nice to hear from all sides. and i feel really bad for thoe father who do want to be in their childs life and take shared responsibility
when i was pregnant i had to give up work due to many bleeds and now since heart probs and respiratory prob so since havnt been able to go back to work and i do miss it but am physically unable too i told the father and just had abuse i also told him when i had my daughter he went mad and i offered a dna he kept refusing and changed his number .
a few times since i have had abuse from him i eventually went to csa i didnt want too sort things this way i was hoping we could sort it between us. csa arrange for a test he refused he since has had another child gone self employed moved lots of things really to avoid this situation im not money grabbing me and daughter are doing fine but it would be nice if he could put any amount in her account for when she was older or somthing. csa have been a waste of time really. his girlfriend has been in contact and wants if sorted and i said i be willing for test or whatever but he wont take one she mentioned a sibling test but i cant afford it what i gather he doent even know she is contacting me ive almost had a guts full.
i dont have any contact with him now as i dont want the abuse from him his family and friends ive left it to the csa athoe i dont hold much hope.
i have replied to his girlfriends messages i dont blame her i would be the same . she wants to tell her daughter she has a sister if it comes out he is the dad which he is i said my daughter will also know i have never said he cant be in her life but thing is its she is nearly 3 he has made no attepmt to be in her life it sounds awfall but after all this time and abuse i dont want him in her life i feel like he has had plenty of opitunity:( she will know the truth when she is older i wish the men who just walk away from there kids without a care in the world just to go on making more would step up. and i think its disgussting the women who just want the money men who want to be apart of there childrens life e.t.c should be praised not punished by bitter mothers or csa it seams they punish the good and just let the bad off the hook 🙁
@Nessa
‘Fathers should man up and take responsibility’
Such a cheap and entirely predictable statement. It’s quite obvious that you enjoy the sound of your own voice, judging by the relentless posts on here. But I’d give the self-admiration a rest until you know the facts. And given that you’ll never be a man who is being slaughtered by the CSA, I’d suggest you give your mouth the week off.
I’m guessing you only noticed my name a lot, but forgot to read the posts. I shall now say this again, for your benefit only. My respect goes to all the dads who fight for their kids and want to be in their lives. I am ashamed of the women who use kids as means to have a revenge on their ex-spouses/boyfriends/partners. I believe the responsibility for kids, even after the couple splits, should be 50-50, in all the ways. It took two to create the child, and it should take two to raise the child…..HOWEVER…and now pay attention and read this carefully, ”convenientwallet”…all the fathers and mothers who do NOT care for their children and ignore their existence should rot in hell. Pretty much. That is all I have to say about them.
As for CSA. don’t cry me a river. I have not used their services nor I ever will. It is a government created body, you should take this up with your local MP.
P.S. I am a single mother to a child whose father couldn’t care less about her existence and the fact that it is extremely hard at times to deal with both material and emotional aspect of raising a child. How is that for a fact?? Douche.