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just because he hasnt paid doesnt mean cant see child he may not b able to pay kids ……payment is irrelevant and csnt stop contact on that basis n neither shud u its damaging to child…….obvs if contact resumes would have to b slowly as not seen for years…….
The monies is a separate issue ! Contact is not pay per view !
let him it he should have top pay to see his own child . u hate it if u could only see them when you payed . their his kids to not just your , not just about the money
I have just finished my court to see my son not being funny but I never payed a penny. Because she had a partner in right after we split. But now I am seeing him I am about to start paying. Let him be a dad and then he will pay.
Why hasn’t he bothered contacting his child for the past 3yrs??? Children are not there for parents to pick up and see them as and when they want!
there mayb circumstances that has prevented him includin the mum who wants cash in order for him to see kid….before people judge n criminalise dads we dont know there circs on this but he now wants to c kid n shud hes made that effort to try and its his kid too. pisses me off mums just rhink dads are cashpoints……no dosh no access thats not right on any level dont just blame the dad
Money and contact are 2 separate issues.. YOU have no right to deny contact unless the child/children are at risk.. It’s not pay per view.. He’s a dad first not a bloody cash machine.. You are hurting your child by denying contact.. You will never be able to undo the hurt you cause by stopping contact. The child grows up and wants the truth and the truth ALWAYS comes out in the end… take it from one who knows..I’m a grown woman now and I will NEVER forgive my mother stopping me seeing my dad.. When I found him, it was already too late for me as my dad had died at the age of 55. If you love your child then do the RIGHT thing and let dad be in his child’s life not just a bargaining chip..
what do these people think children live on fresh air or does a magic fairy provide clothes food pay bills if he ( another poor man) wants contact he hasn’t paid any money for three years what’s he gonna do when he has the child for the week end HE WILL HAVE TO PUT HIS HAND IN HIS POCKET TO PROVIDE FOOD AND ENTERTAINMENT
There may be a genuine reason for his not being involved for 3 years. He maybe at fault, or the mother of the children could be at fault. You need to be in a fathers shoes to understand how difficult it can be for us to provide properly when we are denied access to our children or are being screwed over by bad mothers and the CSA.
not all mums are bad I have two children I get £10 a month off their dad and he has been to see them only twice since xmas and he lives only 3 hours away from us I have even offered to pay his train fare and he still doesn’t bother
Nicola Horton…a load of bollocks come out of your whining mouth, so keep it shut.
Money is all you understand obviously. Seems most people responding to this post agree on one thing. Money has nothing to do with how,why,if a parent sees his/ her child.
You are as bad as her in that case. Since only money seems to be a valid reason for him seeing his kid in your eyes
Gonk