Ex wants CSA money for herself and refuses to let me see my daughter
I NEED YOUR HELP BADLY!
I recently got a letter from csa with regards to an assessment that needs to be made from my fucking ex whom i’ve not spoke to since 3 years ago. she doesn’t want me to see the child or have nothing to do with them. 3 years later this fucking csa letter comes.
I’m self employed not earning much. I was wondering how I could avoid paying anything to this ex who wants to see me crumble. Trust me i know for a fact she will use the money for her own luxury for holidays with her boyfriend.
i was thinking three things.
1. ignore the letter and wait till 2014 for them to introduce the new legislation scheme that apparently will drop all cases.
2. be truthful and say i earn less than 50 quid a week.
3. i commit suicide.
please note that the letter they sent wasnt at my current address, it was at my previous where i do not stay. since then ive been in self employment so theres no record at all with the house i currently live in. Is it possible to maybe say csa sent it to my wrong address so if they do eventually send it to the right address, i can say i never received it and therefore the claim hasnt started.
Please help a fellow british citizen. i love my daughter and think about her a lot. she even changed her name i gave her and everything. please suggest what i should do.
one more thing
this job i have ive only recently sent off for the self employment form which will take a few weeks to arrive. is it possible to maybe say to csa im not in work getting income from my mum for food.
hate my ex for this. so many times i wanted to see my daughter to give her gifts, clothes and have a happy family.
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CSa don’t care you not seeing your child but they will hunt you down like a rat
OP in same boat as you…ex using money on himself – he loves his fags and cans and new clothes, while our child is pictured in clothes way too big for them, for them to grow into. Ex also wants me in a crap life unable to move on and be happy, and most importantly….not see our child. Also changed name of our child…parent alienation….you bet
The CSA are there for the money. They do not care how you live or not live, or that you have bills or even were the one cheated on, they only care about the money, meeting targets, and their own pay packets.
You are in a better position being self employed over PAYE, as expenses such as car and maintenance for that are considered, but still we must give something to th PWC. Unfortunately, we just have to do our bit even though we know it wont go directly on our children 🙁
At least we can say we did give support. Though support in the CSAs eyes is to extract as much money from you as possible.
WWOBB: Ignore them until 2014 and they will backdate everything to the date they first contacted you.
Be truthful and show them you earn £50 per week.
The last option is not an option.
bullshit them with your earnings..you are in a far better position than alot of us on here with DEO’s in place..lie about your earmings,try and pay em as little as possible cause they will rob your ass dry if you are honest..Wrong advise I know but id do if i was self employed..and why ? because these arsholes will never be fair with you,they DO not give a shit about YOU. So why should you give a shit about them or your bitch of ex thats come after you after 3 yrs.typical of alot of them..dump their men, not suggesting yours did…but speaking for myself….they dump their men cause theres nothing they want from them any more,they want nothing to do with you anymore,they shut your kid out of your life but they sure as hell still want something from you…YOUR FUCKING MONEY, and with full support from the csa
Dont roll over and give in to them..make it as difficult as poss for them cause they sure as hell will make your life a misery if you too honest.
gonk
yes no where your coming from while im seeing my child im being nailed to the wall buy the csa thanks