Ex took off with our child, now I have to pay for it

September 30, 2010

I have a daughter who i haven’t seen since she was 2 years old i was paying the csa but her mother did a moon light wonder. After driving around one day working as a rep, i came across her we keeped in touch which was great but after several months she did it again.

I remember the day very well i spoke to her mother said i will be working away, so i said i will come up on the 19th december 2000 to drop her presents off and will come and have her on the 27th, so along come the 19th and guess what she had gone.

I heard she had move to Hull. (i’m from Nottingham) So 0ne month ago i get a letter its from the csa they want back pay and the goverment want £5800 in total around £8500 and to carry on paying, the best bit i have 2years to pay the arrears. I now have a family and a son and i know this is going to become a nightmare.

Comments

  • Brokenfather says:

    I found out my almost 4 year old son had moved when the police went to his home to talk to his mother because she had threatened over the telephone to have me killed. That was 4 and a half years ago now and I havent seen him since and still dont know where he lives.

    The mother still considers it her right to collect CM from me though.

    I think it is so very wrong that this government will force you to pay CM for a child that you are prohibited from having a relationship with by the other parent, while doing absolutely nothing to assist you in fighting to regain that relationship.

    It shows that all the government really cares about is the money they can collect and keep, and really doesnt give a stuff about the welfare of the children.

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