Ex tells me to ‘f-off’ when I ask about son

In 1999 I seperated from my wife. Our child then four was taken by my wife and I was rapidly disposed of. Although shortly after our seperation I was told that by law I had a right to see my child I was never aloud to do so and not long after, my then wife fell off the radar. other than divorce papers landing at my parent I heard nothing from her.. In effect she had denied me my parental rights…10 years go by and then BANG…CSA…By means of a DEO started taking part of my wage leaving me with 30%…After three months of phone calls and letters settled at a 40% deduction.. that’s £132.82 a week.

At this point i’m at my parents can’t afford to get a place of my own. can’t save for a deposit. can’t afford rent.. my exwife surfaced 6 weeks ago. I found her on “facebook” she owns a salon in rodley nr, Leeds she looks to be doing fine..forth holiday this year,new iphone, just nipping out to do some holiday shopping, was her phrase of the day.

I phoned her last monday asked her if I could see my boy she told me to F***off. nice (she’s like that) anyhow, the new husband came to the phone seemed right enough, told me he had CSA problems daid his ex wants 17k…(sorry about that steve)..but it looks like i’m paying it? …

I have phoned and written to the CSA..about the claim and the DEO they say Tuf..