Ex is lying about how much he earns
October 23, 2014
My husband and I separated in February. He has his own business and is paying the minimum he can based on web site calculator.
If I went to csa can they look into his bank accounts and spending because he is actually getting more cash money than he is letting on.
He is treating himself to fancy holidays to new York ect while I am on benefits with 3 kids.
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If you believe he’s lying contact ir and report it it’s fraud
Here’s a thought. If the government states a family can survive on min wage and benefits top up why should your ex pay anymore than mine wage? This not meant to start an argument ..its just a thought
Ah youl always get those bastard men commenting on here and given stupid bloody answers!!! I’d say the same as Amanda hun. Why should your kids have minimum while he’s swanning off! My ex is a bastard too and he tries all the loops of not paying to the point it’s been over a year and I’ve only just started getting payments and he’s having to pay loads back for his stupidity. He was the same.. Going out most weekends and I do work and my new partner works but it’s the responsibility of a child! I’m waiting for all the money grabbing comments from the men to start…. Now!! Have a child and bloody pay simple as! more so when I don’t stop access and never have! if you don’t want to pay csa… Please wear a condom and don’t breed again!! Rant over
And before anyone says!! I get that some women are awful and stop contact for no reason and that’s wrong! I get that some women are just after money but not all are!
Wow how bitch is that, if he’s self employed good luck. But does sound greedy we split I want more it’s for your kids not you
Why not let him have and see his 3 kids more and take them on holiday and you could work a bit more instead of depending on extra free money. Each of you’s would pay and buy for them.
After all full time working people are topping up your money. I’m assuming that’s why you’ll be working part time. No excuse for your ex husband to be picking up the 3kids from school if he works for him self.
If you went to the CSA now the CMS they would first of all ask you to come to a private arrangement.
Failing that they will ask for a fee on application and will go to HMRC for income information.
They will only apply to look into bank accounts after many years of accrued arrears, avoidance and non compliance and that will be of no help to you now.
If he is a director all accounts should be available from the companies house web site.
What’s your problem he is paying. Oh that’s right you need your hair doing and nails and not forgetting your weekend nights out. What makes me laugh is that according to women it’s ok for them to have a life but god forbid the ex have a life.
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I am disgusted by all the judgemental comments. I should not need to justify myself. I recently had to give up work due to ill health after paying into system for nearly 30yrs. I do not have nights out and sit about getting nails painted. Never have. I worked full time and brought up children to allow my husband to build up his business. Myself and the family made financial sacrifices. I asked a question looking for advice which no one has actually answered. Maybe those who are being so judgmental should look at their own lives and attitudes first.
@ claridge…how dare you! This woman mightv had to give up a job to care for her 3 kids and it’s bloody hard work taken care for 1 never mind 3! So she’s probably had no option but to be a stay at home mammy to those kids. Have her nails painted and hair done?… Even if she did have that done where’s the problem? she’s on about more money for her children… Never mentioned for her self. Why shouldn’t he want to make sure his kids have the best of everything? You men should maybe stop trying to call cheap shots at the ex and think about your kids and what’s right! start praising the woman that’s bringing up your children and do the right thing! not all women are money grabbers and this woman wants what is best for her children!
I thought I’d given rather a comprehensive answer!
Yes thanks Bill. I was meaning all those who just comment needlessly.