Equal custody so no payments to be made
May 5, 2012
I find the CSA will say anything to get you off the phone!!! In January 2011 I had an altercation with my ex as she was unwilling to have our son over new year ( I should explain we have shared care 3 1/2 days each) this resulted in her contacting the CSA in anger and declairing I have little or no contact with my son, a few days later I get a schedule from the CSA to say I know need to make payments of £5 per week, I contacted the CSA explained we have equal custody and they agreed no payments to be made, I thought that was the end of that.
In april I get another scheduale saying my payments have increased to £21 per week, again rang up and explained i was told it was a system error and ignore it. In May the CSA had gone to court without my knowledge and had a deduction order enforced on me for £45.15 per week ( I earn £200 per week by the way)angry my phonecalls wasn’t working I wrote to them outlining dates receipts etc to prove I had my son as I said, when to my supprise they said they needed more evidence ??????? whatever that means.
Now that they had there claws in me and (I love this one) after a review of my case in August my payments will increase to £65 per week, Depesite this I complained to there department and got a crappy letter back from one end of the country and a positive response from the other ( if ever a definition of the left hand not knowing what the right hand is doing this would be it) I was advised to escalate it to a tribunal which I have done and await a date in the future, however in the meantime the HELL that is the CSA continues , November I get another schedule saying the next 7 payments will be £96 per week then down to £29 there after, Again no reason for this but the choice is, come out of my £200 per week job or carry on get into further debt and hope it will come right, I chose to carry on, In january I contacted them again and Halleluya they have accepted my evidence to shared care and will process the change straight away, I wish this was the end of the matter but its not, after contacting them Feb,March and April then yesterday they RANG ME yes I was shocked only to tell me they have accepted the shared care and the change will happen straight away ( it hasn’t happened since they accepted the change 6 months ago so i can be forgiven this is just another tale to be told, I hear so many stories of fathers not playing there role in contact or support yet it staggers belief I am not one of those and yet through one bitter phonecall 19 months ago I am living in shere hell because of it and heres the sad part its my son ultumately who suffers as I simply dont have the money to take him places or buy him the best, I can bareley afford the mortgage and utilities.
hello mate your are not alone I am living the same hell thanks to these moronic useless idiots
Your ex needs to close the case and have monies written off, else I’m sorry to say csa will always be hounding you. If you feel at a loose end go and see your mp asap. Good luck