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Do we have a right to stop payments?
Ok so where do I start my husband pays £200 a month for his son to his ex partner , we know that it’s impossible for her to spend all of this on the child and have proof she spends it on herself.
She’s buys herself boots and clothes and uses the Money for nights out. She doesn’t work so all rent etc is paid for her , do we have the right to stop Payments ?
Also we have my step son 3 days a week so these Payments Seam very high , as his mother only feeds him for his tea on the other 4 nights , we supply his uniform for school so that doesn’t come out of csa Help ! Please just help!
She’s currently demanding more money as she believes that she needs more. I have a child with my Husband that csa don’t take in to account …
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Doesn’t matter what she spends it on unfortunately. Although nights spent over at yours and your other child should be taken in to account when they do the calculations.
Impossible she spends it all on the child? On what basis do you make such a statement anyway? I would say it takes that amount took raise a child, even more as the child turns into a teenager!
doesnt matter what it spent on.
How do you know ‘your’ money is spebt on her?? I have nights out and buy myself clothes, am I not allowed to because I get money from my sons father? Money is NOT just for material things, what Bout warmth and a roof over the child head?? Nights at yours and the fact he has a dependant at home should protect some of his earnings though
As hard as it sounds it calculated at ur husbands take home pay and overnight contact. Its not calculated at what a childs needs are. If ur husband earned 400 a month he wud only pay 20 a month which is not enough for u to live on nor bring up a child however if he took home 40.000 a month he would have to pay 6000 a month which is way too much for a baby. It needs to be worked out different.
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its not impossible to spend £200 a month of a child , their food, cloth , shoes , toys , school trips , days out ect
I spend that easy in fact more than that on my kids reality check required
before i was made unemployed I payed over £350 a month for two kids I not seen for over ten years
That was more that my rent on the house
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What is costs to raise a child is irrelivant to the CSA. What matters to them is the % of your wage that is taken for the PWC. As it stands the calculation is a joke and what causes so much resentment between parents. A fairer calculation would be around how much it costs to raise a child then divide by 2 (what a lot of PWC seem to forget is that the money they get from NRP is their contribution, not to cover all the costs otherwise what, finacially, are they contributing). That fairer method would take out the arrguments and bitching about whos spending what and what on, nights out, holidays etc etc
Eh I know she spends my HUSBANDS money on herself as he’s told us this ..
My argument Is that the csa is to support the child not to Support her drug fuled nights out . I have a child with my husband to , and I can assure you by the time he pays csa out and rent council tax etc there’s not much left
I work and this means I soully support out daughter . My husbands son is only 3
So we know she don’t spend £50 a week on him .. And shes also admited she and I qoute “uses the csa to pay for nights out because she needs a break”
She doesnt work so there gets all of the money and all of her bills paid.
I understand everybody needs a break but I don’t see why my husbands money that’s meant for his son should be spent on drink
And drugs , I came here for advise as I wasn’t sure where we stood