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At least one father has managed to avoid CSA tyranny!
there don’t take what he as to pay out of it and if he on 60 pound an hour he would have to pay more so I think he could be telling you lies. I am on 10 an hour and I have to pay 15 pound for my child and that with her father oweing me money so yes it is one big joke
Well done to him.
How do you know he’s on £60 p.h.?
Probably hearsay or reading his private mail.
Do you have evidence to prove it?
Probably not.
Report it to Hmrc they will look into his bank accounts, to the guys above assuming your pissed off for contributing to the children/child you have and don’t want to help financially support. Good on you lol.
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no the guys above know only to well mums scam dads via csa to give them a lifestyle n control over the ex……csa is NOT about support for the kids…..putting 2nd families below poverty line for anothers child is not anout the kids……they are incompetent n weve proved it over n over they ruin lives n criminalise dads……shut them down
I don’t like to tare all ex’s with the same brush, but well done that man.
Thats the going rate for tattooist whos shop is fully booked constantly.And also paying for treatmeant so hum and his wife can have a baby together he well cant afford it can he.i dont even need his measly contrabution to his daughters up bringing I work for myself.The point is it takes to to bring a child into the world so why should one sherk there responsibility s cost a more than 8.57 a wk £10 a wk on just school dinners shool trips last one was £185 he paid 35 of that after asking him about 10 times
And when u report it to hmrc they want to know there address, reg of there car, name of there accountant (like im going to know that )
it’s not that. I think all of us want to pay for our child, it’s the fact that CSA take too much money than they should which leave some of us in financial crises when the mum sits at home on benefits getting extra money from us than they should do.
I agree with not paying too much via CSA and that’s not fair, my ex is self employed claims 1/4 of what he earns, I work but also get help. But I support my children, and it annoys me how he has a great life going out and I struggle to get new school things and extras for my children. If a man has a child regardless of how it happened they should support them.
Shouldn’t the reward of having the children in your custody be enough?? I’d sacrifice everything I have, live on the bread line and not expect a single penny from my ex if I could wake up in the same house as my son.
My ex just wants more money that csa help her to rip from me to the tune of £500 a month so she can have all the shit she wants while denying me access and I struggle to get by. Fuck csa.
I’m going through treatment to have a baby, how do you know what it’s costing? I’m sharing my eggs so all I pay is the licence fee and deposit….assumptions is the mother of all fuck ups!….I was on your side until you said that, makes you sound jealous of his wife.
If he owns his own business it’s all according how he has it set up. Have you not spoken to him direct? It’s all eventually going that way anyway.
does it mater if he is on £6 or £60 you still only need the same amount of money to clothe & feed a child !
He told me he was paying for injections to make his sperm stronger coz his misses wants a baby.if u can inly pay 8.57 a wk for the child u already have how can u justify bringing another child into the world din.
And I left him when my daughter was 6 months old coz I dont appreciate being treated like a c#nt .
After the 8.57 csa said he had to pay me he then moved from his mothers to a nice house and bought another business 120 a wk! Are u able to stretch that amount that far? Rent, council taxes, water, electic ect? I think not x
Do u actually have a child?? Where do u do your food shopping and buy your children’s clothes? Please do tell 8.57 doesnt even buy a pair of shoes does it?
Totally agree with u kelly littleford
That’s a joke I live off less than that I pay £230 a month I bet my ex doesn’t even see that amount I they tried telling me I had been promoted three ranks at work wen that is clearly impossible
How can the Csa be a joke when it costs £70-100million a year to run and uses a computer set up that cost £450million.serious buisness!!
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Cant u tell its computer run or total incompetence the first letter I got of them telling me I was getting nothing gad my brother down as the father of my daughter wtf
I have two children was a single mum for 5 years with 0 contribution from my ex and I managed ok without his help….are you getting all that your entitled to? And there is nothing proven to make sperm stronger, know this too well with fertility issues with my husband unless he has low testosterone and this will be prescribed via his doctor or fertility specialist….can I ask how you would even know this because it’s a very personal thing to be going through, I’d be devastated if my husbands ex knew our troubles and was rubbing my nose in it.
If you’re going through csa you can apply for a variation on the grounds he’s living inconsistent to his lifestyle but you will need proof to back this up.
Don’t be bitter at his wife if they’re struggling to conceive, she fell in love with him as did you once and has every right to want a child with her husband as did you and she probably is jealous of what you have unfortunately it’s human nature.
As stated he told me went something like misses wants a kid getting all depressed I dont give a fuck ive already one.she had test done its not her its me so paying for treatment. Am I getting all I should? Not me is my daughter getting what she deserves! Why should she shit out on stuff.
I support my children, and always did voluntarily, til their greedy mum got CSA involved cos she felt she wasn’t getting enough. She even sent them copies of MY bank statements and payslips to show them what I was earning. CSA cared not that she’d opened my mail, and stole that and my payslips.
You should really be grateful what you get. If hes self employed you will never get the gull amount as he will play the books. Please just be grateful he pays that. Im grateful for every bit I get as it helps towards the kids hobbies and living expenses for them
You sound really angry….if he’s that much of a dick why are you wasting your energy on him? If he is refusing to take care of his responsibilities then that’s his loss and keeping on will not change it….I’m 10 years of not getting anything from my ex and to be honest do not suffer because of it, there really is no point.
Csa are soon changing all cases to maintenance direct and you will both need to mediate a way forward unless there is a genuine reason why this cannot be the case ie any form of abuse and if you cannot agree a % taken from both of you when maintenance is paid.
If your ex is giving details of him and his wifes fertility issues then shame on him as to me that is private and shouldn’t involve you and what a shit he’s being to both you (rubbing you up the wrong way) and his wife who is struggling…sounds like he’s playing the both of you.
Does he have contact with the child?
yes it 20% of the one that works ( that me) and 4% of him .
Andrew have her and them for breaking data protection….it’s illegal to open up someone else’s mail! How did she even get a hold of it?
Kelly Littleford on July 13th, 2014 9:35 am
Report it to Hmrc they will look into his bank accounts, to the guys above assuming your pissed off for contributing to the children/child you have and don’t want to help financially support. Good on you lol.
Another blinkered comment from some one who can’t see the wood through the trees. you assume nothing,wipe the shit out of your eyes. It’s about what’s fair, f**k all to do with being pissed because we have to pay.
Completely see where you coming from Melanie Parton. Well said and very true.
Gonk
Another fair and valid comment from Chris hodges
Gonk