CSA used as a weapon
The “Ex” used the CSA as a weapon. The agency took 18 months to reach an “assesment”, then told me I owed them 6500 pounds, in back payments !
( the bill for which was sent on christmas eve 1994…)
I was living on 70 pounds a week then, and trying to pay my lawyer so I could keep contact with my son. I had no savings.
In reply to the CSA, I submitted evidence that the Ex was a best selling author, and that her books were published in the USA. Needless to say, she did not disclose her considerable earnings ( in a USA bank account ) to the agency.
Being that this was ouside the CSA`s “tick the box ” culture, they ignored the evidence for eleven years, and continued to wage war against me by bombarding me with letters, demands and threats, sometimes every day.
I answered every one of them, and my letters were systematically ignored.
I refused to pay their self-made demands ( pounds 38,000,) and it finally ended up in court with the CSA official being hung out to dry by my barrester ( I should mention that the CSA guy [ hello Mr Jones.. ] tried to walk out of court just before the hearing, claiming he “did not have the paperwork “. He was promptly arrested by the court ballif, and the case proceeded there and then. He was so utterly incompetiant that the court threw out the case, and awarded costs to me ( BTW, they never paid..)
In spite of that, the CSA continued to harrass me, even when I became seriously ill in 2004.
My partner left me because of the strain of seeing me having to deal with daily letters from the C.S.A. I have not been able to cope with her loss.
The terrible thing was that my Ex read every word of my CSA counter-claims to my young son, and throughly poisoned his mind against me.
In desperation, I left the UK in 2006.
The CSA, and it`s successor, are an impediment to natural justice, and their actions result in children being harmed emotionally, and the CSA unwittingly encourages Parential Alienation Syndrome – which is now recongnised as form of child abuse.
The CSA has nothing to do with the wellbeing of children, it is a cash-cow created by the government of Maggi Thatcher, the income of which goes to the exchequer.
The system was a botched fusion taken from an Austrailian model, which in itself, failed.
In the UK, harrassment from the CSA has caused hundreds of suicides, and a considerable number of murders.
There is only one conclusion from the history of this agency. It has failed.
It should be promptly abolished and matters of child support( and contact ) should given back to the courts.
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You know they say when you die, you see the pain and suffering you caused to others….. Their time will come, and I am very sorry to read your post, and the loss of your partner and child.
I dont blame you for starting over in a new country…I hope you have found some peace and can begin to live again. x
Your case and circumstances epitomises everything that is bad about this ‘completely shambolic’ and ‘flawed’ system. It should be published in a newspaper or magazine, in order to demonstrate that the CSA is a catastrophic failure.
I have been ‘ranting’ regarding important matters involving children being referred back to the courts for years. Offences involving the ‘Childrens Act 1989/2004 are not dealt with by incompetent office staff. They are dealt with Professional, Accredited lawyers, as should child support issues.
The terminology that use regarding Parent Alienation Syndrome, hits the nail on the head!
Thanks for posting and good luck for the future.
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Well said.
Y dont us fathers put our money together and blow up the csa buildings and the workers. Im in and i dont care about the csa as they dont care about us fathers. Wots good for them is good for us. Mail me..