CSA said I am an easy target because I pay
I have been happily divorced from my ex for 13 years. I have 2 Teenage sons who i love more than life itself and i have continued to maintain a happy relationship with them.
My ex wife decided after we split to contact the CSA after us failing to agree a monthly figure, she was demanding £500 a month in 1997. The CSA over the years have taken various amounts from me which up until 3 years ago were manageable and allowed me to move on with my life as she had with hers. in 2007 i started working for the government and as a result my payments doubled from £200 a month to £400 a month, and i still get regular re assesment requests from the CSA. As soon as i start to get ahead they hit me again, i have been told i am an easy target cos i pay.
My sons have recently stated that their mother never gives them money or purchases new clothes for them, my youngest recently asked his mother for new school shoes only to be told, “i cant afford it” then not 30 minutes later a 50 inch flat screen tv was delivered to the address, this was 2 weeks after my payments increased. i contacted the Bastards at the CSA who said and i quote “its not our problem, she can spend it on a world cruise for all we care” i am appalled that just because your marriage does not work and you make the mistake of settling down with the spawn of satan that your life counts for nothing.
I am actually now considering leaving my job as it is becoming more difficult to make ends meet and i am working to pay them.
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It would be funny if someone who works
at one of the well known Credit Check
agency’s took it upon themselves to
give all the civil service employees
a really bad credit score,all that has
to be done is search all civil service
workers listed with in a certain distance of the CSA centers,then look at the demographics for concentrations
of the job type in a certain area.
This way you can get a good idea
of those most likely to work at the centers.when a credit score goes from good to bad it takes a short time to show up on all the different indexes.
After this the persons overdraft will
be revoked,items like cars purchased
by credit can be taken from the keeper,
In the end they cant even get the lowest contracts like a mobile phone.
Its a real ordeal trying to sort it out
and can cost a fair bit as well,even
calling a credit agency with concerns
about your credit rating can make it
drop.It is amazing what can be done with a few mouse clicks these days,
hello..i have been paying csa for my son for 13 years and never evr missed a payment..he is now 18 and i have stopped paying as i have 2 new dependants that need this money far far more than my older son that can support himself..but the csa are taking me to court as they say i have to continue till 19….
watch this space because i think the court will try and make an example of me and maybe send me to prison…i will not pay any more payments to my 18 year old son!!! who i never see….the money never goes on him!!! and he can fend for himself now…ive paid 13 years solid…they are ruining my life…its all princable now and they wont even look into the fact he is not even at colledge..
is this right????? should this be allowed????…
Same position as me! Same replies I get.
ok I”m a PWC fighting aNRP whose managed to use the csa against me so he dont pay. Lala thats beyound the point it does actually happen and unfairley so actually most of us are in the same boat thats why we use this website for help. In my opion if you have to leave your job cois of everything ok But you seem to me a good dad so why not use the money to set up a trust fund for them so they can spend it to go to Uni or bye a car. Much better then the x going on a cruise (I wish dont remember the last time I had a holiday its over 10yrs we”re not all the same) Good luck and I Know your one of the good guys