CSA only goes after loving fathers like me

March 23, 2011

I have just found this site and can’t believe the amount of people that are in the same boat as me. So much of what I’ve read is just the same as my experience with the csa, they behave like the SS, I dont know how they can sleep at night.

Surely to god the government know what an arse they are making of everything and how they are making people’s lives a misery. I love my daughter more than anything and want to provide the best I can for her, but they dont seem to take into account little things like having to pay your mortgage and all the other bills as well. It seems to me they go for the fathers who want to be there for their kids and dont bother about the arseholes that are not interested. Somthing has to be done, I think everyone who is in this situation has to start making some noise so the goverment sits up and takes notice.

I cant get any sense out of these people when I am dealing with them and then usually lose the rag and it desends into a slagging match. The goverment need to do something about this now because I would like to keep my house and provide for my daughter.

Hope this dosen’t sound like the ramblings of a madman best of luck to everyone who has to deal with these clowns you’ll need it.


  • lyn says:

    Joe I agree and its only when you start reading the website that you realise how many people including PWC are actually having a hard time with the CSA.

    I hope you hold on to your house because in my ex partners case he didnt they took it from him within 3 months and dont care about where he will take his children when he has them. He is now homeless

  • KMcQ79 says:

    Good points Joe 4182 !
    Divorce when children are concerned can never be easy and the CSA come charging in with their public sector toe capped boots causing even more problems at a time for many is difficult.
    Not only do the CSA go for loving fathers,they also harass fathers like me who PAY!

  • John says:

    I know that I am repeating myself, but I have been on both sides of the ‘shambles’ known as CSA, as a PWC and an NRP.

    As a PWC it took me 2 years to get maintenance for the child living with me. I paid straight away for my non-resident children.

    The child living with me is now an adult, has excellent qualifications, a good job and is a credit to me and society………………….How am I treated?………………..Like a scumbag criminal, by incompetent oafs, who should be thrown out of their jobs and the ‘not fit for purpose’ CSA shut down!

    ………and then we have our great elected politicians, who turn a ‘blind eye’ to the deaths, the poverty and debt that they are imposing upon people.

    When the politcians come to me for something………..they can shove it where the sun don’t shine!

  • gambit says:

    Joe I think you have absolutely hit the nail on the head, as a PWC with an ex who doens’t give a damn and hasn’t paid maintenance in over 5 years, yet sees and speaks to our children whenever it suits him (yet I’m the one taking the mick!!!) I completely agree, they should stop wasting their time with NRP’s that give enough of a damn to do right by their children and start dealing with the problems, ie. NRP’s who DON’T pay, and PWC who take the mick!

    But then, that wouldn’t be easy now would it, seems they only bother with the people they know will do as they say without arguments!

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