CSA keeps kicking dads in the teeth
My lovely ex who i pay every month without fail, have my kids every other weekend has decided to go to the csa and tell them that she wants all payments throught the CSA. They duly obliged.
My problem is….i’ve never missed one payment in 3 years, never said i can’t have my kids and have my kids more that the 52 days a year she put down. I’m now refusing to pay until the CSA have got the real amount i owe, not just numbers that have been magiced from thin air.
I take my kids away every yhear, have them over christmas and certainly have them for more than once day a week. I’m now waiting to see if i’ve been over paying, as my ex seems to think i owe her a favour. Give me my kids full time, and i wont request a penny from her.
Dads who do all they can gettin kicked in the teeth at every turn. Seems the mums tell the truth all the time.
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Had the same thing myself, don’t really see how this can be Legal. Always thought the CSA was there for the ones that don’t pay but they will pick on anyone
Thanks Stephen. We seem to be walking wallets. They don’t care less about what the dads go through
Hate to say it but that’s how they work, completely screw over the good dad’s and push them to a point of losing everything. It’s ridiculous. We’ve been through the same thing but they can go swivel at the moment because my partner has been made redundant. I wonder how she’ll say for her holidays and boob job now?
Was paying privately but ex didn’t want it that way because she could get more via CSA. Fortunately for me I lost my job today, and as I do not see how my money ever benefits my children,I couldn’t care less that she’ll be back to a fiver a fortnight. I would like to be a fly on the wall when she finds out.
Greedy bastards the lot of them! CSA needs booting square in the stains! Utter money grabbing bastards. Left me in a bad way once or twice. Only breadwinner with 2 kids and they wanted 570 a month for a kid who’s 19???? Fuckin wankers the lot of them.
My ex lied to them and said I had never paid, I got my bank to write to them proving I had and that I’d actually overpaid. They were actually sympathetic once they realised she had lied to them.
She’s now gone for direct payment anyway though and they said there’s nothing they can do about it. Fortunately for now it’s on the old scheme so it’s free for them to collect.
I should add that this is the same woman, a schoolteacher no less, who is refusing to let my son see me unless I put in writing that I will bring him back at a specific time.
Back to court it is…
Women eh! Fannies are to blame. Lol
If you pay regularly every month without fail what’s the issue? If it’s about the amount you now have to pay then tough luck.
@ Cheryl smith, if you are reading this post or can be bothered since it is a Nrp.
This is the sort of shit that goes on every day with dads like this and how the good ones are treated by the csa and scum bags like you. You call Ben wiskin a dick….lol…this posting is a classic example of what he is talking about, but he’s a dick in your money grabbing pond dwelling life…lol
Gonk
@Claire Green – Have you actually read the post i put. Or do you have blinkers on. Read it again, then reply with a grown up comment.
You sound as deluded as my ex.
I’d love to put these wopman with dads that don’t and refuse to pay Kev. Maybe they would then realise that we do all we can