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CSA is an embarrassment
I’m 17 years old currently studying at college. My mother and father divorced around 8 years ago and i have a younger brother and a younger sister. My mum’s a single mum and my dad gives her £20 a month for me and my siblings. The CSA apparently sent him a fine for £10,000 and threats of prosecution. It’s been over a year and my mum’s yet to see a penny of that money. Although he had recently been out of work, he now has a job on a £25k salary yet he still doesn’t live up to his responsibilities as a parent.
Thanks to you guys, I’ve had to watch my mum suffer to work while she’s suffering with arthritis and a bad hip.
You guys are a disgrace to single parents and you should be ashamed of yourselves.
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“guys are a disgrace and should be ashamed of our selves” bit off a sweeping statement. Most of the men on this site, can and do pay, normally to our detriment. People like your father won’t frequent here, so please don’t assume we are all the same. I personally have lost everything because of a greedy pwc, and pay so much, I.m considering leaving work. MEN are NOT cash machines for women to abuse, due to having kids….
Sounds like your a perfect candidate for a job at the CSA. Thats the blinkered opinion 99% of their employee’s have!!!!
Can’t wait to see how you do ‘in the real world’! Are you paying any tax for your mothers tax credits. I am and others on here are!
God help you if you get scammed by a woman and she sets the CSA scum on you. Then we’ll be hearing a different story from you!
I pay for my children, and I want to pay for myt children. What I don’t need is to be told by people like YOU and the CSA, what I must do and how I MUST do it!
CSA are a shambles!
Here endeth the lesson!
Chance, it is your father who is a disgrace not ‘guys’ in general.
I pay for my children and probably pay more that I should as I have never seen a calculation despite numerous requests over the years.
You and your mother and siblings have had a rotten deal from your dead beat ‘father’.
You are 17, don’t allow this to tarnish your views of people and life.
I have always paid for my children my ex used the CSA because she is a vindictive bitch, do not tar all NRP’s with the same brush. A lot of us are very happy to pay but not the amount the CSA take we also deserve to have a life too. Grow up you spoilt brat and before you leave incendiary comments have the common sense to think and have your facts right before hand and remember this we are also tax payers so we are already paying for the PWC to sit on benefits why should we be fleeced again because the PWC makes a career of breeding to collect benefits?
I goted duped into getting a girl pregnant (argue what you will) she was too lazy to get a job to pay for it so went on benefits then the csa tapped on my shoulder, i’ve had absolutely nothing to do with the child (argue what you will)…she’s engaged to someone & 7 yrs down the line had a second child…conveniently when she has to look for work…give it another 6 yrs…she’ll be preggers again….what happened to the morning after pill !!
Don’t mind her having a kid but why should i pay for her ignorance…as said i want nothing to do with it !
The mother has basically copied what her mother did & she had 5 kids most of which whilst on benefits & has’nt done a days work to pay for them…very pxxsed off with the system the csa & the mother of this child !!!
She has a bad hip well no doubt she will get DLA and all benefits will all added up she will be on a good 1,800 per month 22,000 + per year yet my husband after tax and the csa robbing us got just over 8,000 last year April 2010 to April 2011. Try living of this evil PWC. I have a very sick daughter and we get fluff all help all because of the greedy PWC that use children for money. What a evil cow you really are.
Why should a PWC get all the benefits thrown at them? Why should I pay loads of tax to pay for the PWC to sit on benefits and then get shafted again in child support whilst I go and graft my arse off and be left with no money to live on myself? Whilst the PWC sits at home and breeds so she can stay on benefits and never work. I cant claim benefits yet I am in poverty because of the CSA, if the CSA were fair and did not take the piss the NRP would not feel the need to go on the run and then the NRP’s who are being abused may not have such a huge financial arse reaming the PWC should contribute half towards the financial up keep of the child after all they are also responsible for making the child, why should the NRP have the full financial burden? I agree with you yes the CSA are an embarrassment, they are also a pack of lying, thieving, low life parasites who bully and intimidate people who are already paying they choose the easy targets and financially rape them especially our servicemen, in my eyes the CSA/ CMEC are traitors and I despise them, I hope we have a scenario like North Africa see how cocky and arrogant they will be when they are faced by thousands of people who they have abused.
Ummm hello….I was a single mum, don’t tar us with the same brush, I didn’t ask for anything of my ex and can assure you was not living in poverty, my kids ask for nothing, and I worked. I’m ashamed that this agency is allowed to carry on shafting the good dads (easy targets) and not the dads they were meant to chase. Before you make statements do some growing up and read what some nrps and second families go through at the hands of the child non support agency.
Forgot to add, a parents responsibility isn’t and shouldn’t be just a financial one.
Greed again all greed look at the bitter in this child the mother should hold her head in shame. CHILD ABUSE!!
The thug the state go around picking pockets of the father in order to give money to the selfish greedy woman the thief “the mother” who use children as hostages in order to feather their banks.