CSA hounded my husband for money he can’t afford

November 29, 2011

My husband has a child as a result of a one night stand, the mother is fraudently claiming every benefit going when she has a partner living with her who isn’t meant to and doesnt even have the child living with her and hasnt done for approx 4 years.

Yet the csa have hounded my husband for years, they are now taking £390 per month out of his wages leaving us with not enough money to cover our bills. They dont mind taking all of that for one child but they are quite happy to leave our two children living with nothing.

When the csa were questioned about the further education the child is supposed to be in and whether or not they looked in to the actual attendance of the child because really any one can put their name to a course and not bother going, they dont care about that they just look to see if there is a child benefit claim being made!!! Unbeleivable they are quick to take your money but they wont listen to your side or the cirumstances the whole set up is a joke.

And to add insult to injury my husband received a letter wanting maintenance for another of her children that isnt even his and not so much as an apology no doubt it was a system error.

Comments

  • janet says:

    How do u know she’s on every benefit going?

  • DNK says:

    MY INLAWS KNOW A FRIEND OF HERS, SHE HAS NEVER WORKED AND THERFORE RECEIVES JSA ALLOWANCE, HOUSING AND COUNCIL TAX BENEFIT WHILST ALSO RECEIVING MAINTENANCE FOR ANOTHER TWO CHILDREN BY ANOTHER TWO DIFFERENT FATHERS.

  • ed says:

    it seems to me that the csa dosnt work. from either side of the fence. every one should lobby there mp to get the system stopped and a new one in place. i have been hiding from the csa for two years and am fed up with not working. i feel like an asset that isnt beeing used. i used to work 6 days a week but the csa left me with £300 per month. i couldnt afford to get my self back to work let alone pay rent, so lost job and home and car. i now have an arears of around two grand and a job offer that i cant take because i would loose everything again. what of the women who make a living from having lots of children with meny diffrent men to claim csa and benifit payments and dont contribut to the country at all only to force somone who was and could work to become yet another drain on the state. there were girls at school who were planning to do just this! meanwhile soppy hear went to work to pay my way in the world for nuthing. i worked hard at school, i worked hard at work and i worked hard at home. my ex wife did nuthing. not even wash!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! one day i was called to se the manager to have my presonal hygene called in to question ( i stank from shering a bed with her) i liffted my shirt an my maniger smelt my tummy to see if he could smell sope. he could. i went home and left my wife. havent been aloud to see my childern since. had my name dragged through the mud and through court. wnet 3 times to get access didnt get to speek once. il leave you with tow things, never trust a woman. there are to many evle ones out there and you WILL get stung and two, if you dont think the csa is a fare system or that it dosnt work then ask your mp to bring it up in the house of commans, get it out there and get people talking about int in the open. eventuly somone who can will chainge things. at least an adult can understand these things. my children have been used as wepons or porns against me and its affected them, proberley for ever. do they have the emotional range to proses and understand what has happened,why it has and that there not a fault? doubt it. im going to write to my mp. if you want take the time and do the same. lets try and chainge things for the better!
    sorry about spelling and thankyou for taking the time to read this through. good luck.

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