CSA goes to a lazy ex who can’t be bothered getting my child ready for school
Having started full time employment last September, I was giving my ex £45 a week every week and sometimes lending her money also, as well as buying him his trainers n school shoes and on my days off taking him anywhere he wanted to go.
His mother and I fell out and she contacted csa and informed them that I had in fact given her nothing and now 40% of my wage goes to the work shy lazy cow that cannot get out of her bed to get my son ready for school.
Can’t believe csa just take for granted every word this woman says as truth! it’s a joke she’s a joke! and I’m pissed off, can apparently do nothing, so now not getting to see my son and workin for nothing.
CSA stop takin the mothers story as gospel, not all dads are dodgin payin for their kids, ok.
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Can you prove you paid her the money every week ie bank statements as this might help you.
It won’t help at all. When I proved I’d been paying cash with bank receipts and statements the csa refused to accept it until my bitter ex confirmed she had received the money. Obviously she refused and they started chasing me for “arrears”
I do agree with what you say and I’m sorry for your circumstances as it sounds like you have gone out of your way to provide for your child and well done you. But the CSA do work the other way as well, there are loads of hard working women out there who don’t get a penny from the estranged husbands as they work cash in hand to avoid paying CSA. Like you say CSA take the mans word for it that they are not working or earning any money but then don’t look into the fact that these same men who say they are not working and are not claiming benefits then how are they paying rent, bills, food run a car etc etc
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They can only take 40% while arrears are in place. This can normally be negotiated down to 30. Maintenance is 15% for one child but can be reduced if there is shared care of 52 nights or more.
Arrears can only accrue from the date when the case is opened with the CSA.
Any monies paid before the case was opened is not considered.
You should have been notified when the case was opened.