CSA contacted me after I appeared in the newspaper

February 26, 2013

I had a relationship with a girl when I was 14yrs old. We were very young and stupid. Well you can guess the rest, she fell pregnant. But, before I knew this, several months intact out relationship dwindled out and we split up. She concealed the pregnancy from me and her family until not long before the birth!

She had a baby girl, I tried to be three etc but the fierce dominance from her family drove me and my family away. Not before I was ambushed and forced to sign the birth certificate!! We stopped seeing each other,and within weeks I had the CSA harassing me for income details- at 15 now I had none!!!

Many years past, nothing came from the CSA or either mother/child, until recently where I was featured in a newspaper for doing well at my job. Funny I had a CSA form within weeks. It took them 5 months to calculate everything and slap me with £96 pw bill and arrears. She’s 16 now, and although the carers allowance has stopped I’m being hit for more assessment than actual maintenance needed!! Further more, when I contacted CSA to say my wife’s wages had decreased due to maternity payments went down. I contacted them to say my wife was not being paid at all, it went up by £30!!

It’s just wrong!!!!!! And yes I know, at that age I should not have been doing that. It’s something I regret everyday of my life!!!

Comments

11 Responses to “CSA contacted me after I appeared in the newspaper”

  1. hornbeamfairy on February 26th, 2013 7:56 am

    RT @CSAHell: CSA contacted me after I appeared in the newspaper: I had a relationship with a girl when I was 14yrs ol… http://t.co/E34

  2. hornbeamfairy on February 26th, 2013 7:56 am

    RT @CSAHell: CSA contacted me after I appeared in the newspaper: I had a relationship with a girl when I was 14yrs ol… http://t.co/E34

  3. hornbeamfairy on February 26th, 2013 7:56 am

    RT @CSAHell: CSA contacted me after I appeared in the newspaper: I had a relationship with a girl when I was 14yrs ol… http://t.co/E34

  4. hornbeamfairy on February 26th, 2013 7:56 am

    RT @CSAHell: CSA contacted me after I appeared in the newspaper: I had a relationship with a girl when I was 14yrs ol… http://t.co/E34

  5. hornbeamfairy on February 26th, 2013 7:56 am

    RT @CSAHell: CSA contacted me after I appeared in the newspaper: I had a relationship with a girl when I was 14yrs ol… http://t.co/E34

  6. hornbeamfairy on February 26th, 2013 7:56 am

    RT @CSAHell: CSA contacted me after I appeared in the newspaper: I had a relationship with a girl when I was 14yrs ol… http://t.co/E34

  7. hornbeamfairy on February 26th, 2013 7:56 am

    RT @CSAHell: CSA contacted me after I appeared in the newspaper: I had a relationship with a girl when I was 14yrs ol… http://t.co/E34

  8. hornbeamfairy on February 26th, 2013 7:56 am

    RT @CSAHell: CSA contacted me after I appeared in the newspaper: I had a relationship with a girl when I was 14yrs ol… http://t.co/E34

  9. hornbeamfairy on February 26th, 2013 7:56 am

    RT @CSAHell: CSA contacted me after I appeared in the newspaper: I had a relationship with a girl when I was 14yrs ol… http://t.co/E34

  10. hornbeamfairy on February 26th, 2013 7:56 am

    RT @CSAHell: CSA contacted me after I appeared in the newspaper: I had a relationship with a girl when I was 14yrs ol… http://t.co/E34

  11. skippydo on December 18th, 2013 2:46 pm

    Please may spread the word and please let’s try setup a REAL COLLECTIVE RESPONSE to this mess.

    A protest March for fairness! on FEB 1ST 2014 @ 10 DOWNING ST and DWP Head office.

    Who’s in?

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