CSA aren’t leaving me with enough to live on
I completely agree tht their should be some sort of voucher system and some form or written evidence that any monies received by our various ex-harridans IS spent on the children directly i.e. food, clothing, maybe sports club subs or whatever other activities they are involved in. NOT just doling out cash so that said ex-harrida can go out, filling her face, booking her corpy charabang holidays to Torremolinos or wherever. I have no problem wiht the kids going on holiday, but I’m buggered if I’m paying for that wizened old bitches flights and fun. Unfortunately, I have no choice though, given the current “system”.
Just as a point of interest, when I split from this deranged old c***, I left her with my car, a mortgage free house worth approx £130K today (to which I was entitled to half, should I have decided to sell which I didn’t as I didn’t want to see my kids who were small at the time go through any more s**t) and paid her in cash, every month, on the nail in cash. NOTE: MAKE SURE YOU GET RECEIPTS IF YOU PAY THIS WAY!!!!! Otherwise, you are f******* once the CSA get involved. As we all know, the scales are well and truly weighed in the favour of the mother as a PWC and it’s your word against hers.
Then, when my personal circumstances took a bit of a downturn – as sometimes they do, that’s life – and I asked her for a short period of grace, whilst I got stuff sorted out (like somewhere for me to live and a job – failry essential stuff I tink you’ll agree) the f******** bitc* gets the CSA onto me! I got the usual phone call back in 2005, when they announced themselves as the DWP and effectively ambushed me. They then said they are actually the CSA and so the horror began.
I’m now getting stuffed for nearly £400 a month (I earn £1k per month tops, If I’m lucky – and out of that remaining £600 I have to find rent of £350, plus food, plus travel, plus bills ) plus £6K’s worth of alleged “arrears”, wherever the f*** they’ve come from.
I have asked repeatedly for a written breakdown of all DEO’s paid since 2005 and details fo these arrears. Essentially, I want to know EXACTLY what I am paying for and how it’s been calculated, which I think is fair enough. However, when I speak to these f***wits I must be doing-this in Serbo-Croat or something because I still haven’t had anything back, bar the usual half arsed stock email response and a string of discussions with a variety of brain dead retards who just baffe me with 5th rate bull s*** and tell me I need to speak to my employer for guidance. FFS!!!!
BTW, the “poor deprived male children in question are 18 and 17yrs and bone idle. On top of that, Mummy has done a sterling job in turning them totally against me bacause I do not meet my financial obligations to them suffciently. As I may have posted before, they have two foreign holidays this year, a new plasma telly and a computer amongst other things. I live in a one bed sh**hole in Gun Central wioth no cnetral heating and I have to do all my emails and computer s*** when I am at work, which was six days but is now going to go to 7, purely so I can afford to exist, let alone live. If anyone can tell me this system is fair and right and prove it to me I would willingly perform oral on them, regardless of gender, for a whole day…………………….
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They are bastards you cant talk to them we have no rights to challenge their decisions, they are screwing hard working men into the dust. Cant we react against the injustice.
Hi,
When did the agency initially make contact with you?
Did you ever supply income details to them?
if not your case maybe subjected to an interim assessment – in which case it can be changed into a proper assessment, this may decrease the amount they claim you owe.
Do you still have an on going regular maintenance liability for your 17 & 18 year olds?
If your circumstances have changed and you are earning less, send copies earnings info asap, this will prevent further arrears accruing at an inflated rate.
You should also request your Data Protection File and a complete account breakdown – there’s a template letter in the downloads section at http://www.afairercsaforall.co.uk – Your also welcome to join us in the forum.