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Yes. This is about the only positive of the CSA. They can and will take money from the absent parent if you contact them, to which I would advise if the Dad doesn’t want to support his son financially for his upbringing.
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Yes you are, however, be warned there is no guarantee the CSA will be of any benefit…
If there is any way you can come to a private arrangement with the father of your child then I would do so as there have been PWC’s who have waited months and/or years for the CSA to sort the situation out and they haven’t.
Also, there have been hundreds of situations where by the NRP (your sons father) have been paying the CSA and the CSA have not given the money to the PWC (they lie and say it’s not been received or it’s with admin – read some of the posts on this website that have been written by PWC and then decide if you want to use the CSA)…
The new CSA 3 system “promotes/encourages” private agreements, however the idiots who work for the CSA do NOT, they play one parent against the other and instigate conflict by telling lies i.e. “the NRP” hasn’t paid (to you) and the “PWC” hasn’t returned the paperwork… this guarantees the PWC will use them as they make the NRP out to be the liar…
My advice would be to avoid the CSA at all costs and try to organise payment between yourselves….
Good Luck
By all means please feel free to use the SCUM CSA, be warned they lie destroy human rights falsify records and are corrupt to the core, oh and get an appointment to see your GP as you will need Valium to steady your nerves, good luck with the filth
I want you to think for one moment whose in charge here?? just because a child says he doesnt want to see his dad the child is suddenly in charge because it suits u ??
wake up call its not his choice until the child is 16. till then its your choice. So in your mind then the dad should pay for his child but not see the child ??
So heres the doozy: If he pays or the child he also has a right to see the child. paying for there child is what good decent dads do.
The facts then are as follows:
you can demand that the payments are restarted and he continues to pay. He can take you to court so his son sees his dad. No court on the planet will accept that because the son doesnt want to see his dad you can stop contact. They will point the finger straight at you. As the responsible parent as will he (hence to get back at you he`s not paying.)
Every child is born with 1 mum and 1 dad and they are the property of the child. Think about it. if your child said mum i dont want to go to school anymore would you say ok then?? no! to my mind depriving any child of there first 2 gifts is acting in there own best intersts and not that of the child. Parenting should never be about money.
he should pay and he should see his child calling in the CSA will damage you all and probably for life best sort your argument for your kids sake eh!
Lots of good advice given on this thread! Involve the cockroaches of the CSA at your peril, you’ll regret it if you do.
Actually its not 16 yrs of age, as if the child doesnt want to see their father and expresses this to the court / court welfare officer and are aged between 12 and 16yrs it is taken into account.
Please join the facebook group Child Support Agencies Failings for advice and support.
Oh Karen u seem to speak from experinece.
If such an opinion is expressed by the child the courts are well aware that this may be due to the mothers on wishes. so this is not a be all and end all it is one of at least 6 factors that have to be taken into account by the court and its officers. S1 Childrens Act 1989 “THE NEEDS OF THE CHILD ARE PARAMOUNT” and to top that in case there is any doubt at. Common law there is a legal but rebuttable presuption that it is in the childs best intersts to see there natural father. This is why any dad short of a mad rapist or murder. will get a contact order just by filling in the paperwork and attending court. In fact I will refer you to the case of RE L et Al 2001 regarding fathers who have a history of violence. theses dads won a contact order in court in spite of a history of violence against the mother. and if u wanno go down the road of domestic violence. Ponder this one What does a dad do if he is the one that is being subjected to violence. If he reports it the police will laugh but more seriously he will be told now you wont be seing the kids.
My daughter didnt want to see me because she thought that I was a Warlock and she was a witch and warlocks take away witches powers which is why her magic didnt work when she was with me. mmmmmmm Now think How do I know this. I punished my daughter for doing drugs I took her phone away as punishment. the mother who smokes weed anyway them charges at me like a Rhino breaking my leg as I went down the stairs. GBH you would think na she said that I was stealing the phone. Self defence??? but she then snarls at me you wont be seeing the kids