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Angry women-hating men

Although I feel so sorry for those who are living on very low incomes, as I am in the same position, I have had no option but to contact the CSA today.

There are a lot of posts from what seem to be angry women-hating men on here who have money and are finding ways to get around paying for their children. So wrong – if you want a new life fine, just make sure you pay for the one you leave behind.

My ex has moved abroad with his new wife and her son and I suppose this will mean I have no hope of getting money from him. He lives in Lithuania and has obviously worked hard over the past few years to hide his money from me.

It would appear that those who are in the Uk and are “easy meat” are targeted, yet those like my ex who earn £60,000 pa, live in a house with 5beds 3baths and a pool and have 3cars, a wife who works and another rented out property will get away scot free.

I have looked after our daughter on my own since he left, she is disabled and has worked hard to get a place in college. He has paid a small voluntary sum since he left and we have managed. What he has is his business and I don’t want it.

However, as she is 16 and her college course is “not up to” standard as he calls it, he has stopped paying anything. Her son will go to university paid for by him.

Tell me, those men who decry the women who go to the CSA – where else can I go to attempt to get him to pay something towards her upkeep???

From what I am reading, the CSA is far from perfect and not targetting the right people, but they are a tool and I need to use any tool I can find right now.

We are not all scroungers looking for an easy life – we don’t all sit watching daytime tv and eating galaxy and drinking. I work part time and would work full time if I could. I have never claimed benefits.

6 thoughts on “Angry women-hating men

  1. Funny, you sound like an ‘Angry man- hating women to me!!!’ but that way round its ok isn’t it !!!

  2. if he’s gone abroad then your chances are nil. The CSA have no jurisdiction outside of the UK.

    Oh, and you’l find most men on here want to help their children & are being raped for the privilege..whilst the PWC is living a “better standard of living”, all whilst being branded as “deadbeats”..charming eh… such is being a 20th century Male I suppose… just a walking cash machine

  3. We are branded deadbeats and worse than drunk drivers.

    I have a son that I raised on my own from when he was aged 10. He has a top job and an honours degree in business management…………but I am low life scum according to politicians and the CSA!

    I’m not in the dock for stealing taxpayers money like many M.P.’s have been and still are. I am not defrauding people through bogus courts with bogus officials.

    I have to see Cameron in order that he can call me worse than a drink driver to my face………and when he gets up I will explain!

    For the record I have been driving 35 years and still have a clean licence!

    I think that you will find the low life scum are running the country!

  4. Ask a male friend to deal with the CSA and discover the man hating wimmin!
    Yes there are those men who are down right feckless cheats whom I have no time for whatsoever.

    There are also men who were (as women put it) ‘good catches’.
    Get married, start a family and provide.
    They have good jobs and are reasonable people.
    The wife/partner then decides she has what she wants, ‘her’ children and financial security provided by her so to be ex.
    So she decides it’s time for a change.
    Gets bored,has a few affairs and pops into a ‘family’ law solicitors on the way home from the gym.
    Gets the divorce so she can join her book club friends and makes a sob story phone call to one of the gorgons at the CSA.
    Poor woman/mother – can do no wrong….

    Yes there are a few women hating men on this forum.
    Wonder why?

  5. There are definitely bad experiences on both sides of the fence. This argument needs to be heard on a wider forum. If anyone is interested in contributing to a video documentary. Go to the thread I started and leave a comment.

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