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He wont have to help you pay for a holiday. I mean correct me if im wrong but thats not what csa is for. There ment to help with money for the kids not fund a holiday and cripple fathers. I was left with no money coz my ex took me to the cleaners with the help off csa, made me ill from stress and lack off food. So be greatful he is paying anything keep the csa out off it, your both be better for it
Pay for you to take the kids on holiday?? I’ve read it all now, wow.
i cant belive what i have just read money grabbing or what
Your ex is giving you more than enough, he doesn’t have to give any extra, birthdays and Xmas etc is all in the CSA payments, think yourself lucky you get what you do, instead of expecting everything handed to you free on a plate, why not get a job and support your children instead of the whole country supporting them via benefits, it should be called ex wife/partner support agency because it’s never about the kids
£425.00 is a little over the tops you will get all your benefits on top of this as well. You should be able to manage on this with no problems. I see the CSA are involved so it will be them who tells him what he has to pay.
no his only liability is the csa payment after that its up to you to pay for holidays, that is what the csa is for. is 42 grand before or after tax? if after tax his take home would be around 35 grand or about 700 a week, 3 kids is 25% of his take home pay. but you sure he earns that amount?? the csa would have checked his payslips and they always make the payment higher never lower so im sure he earns a lot less than you say. 425 a month is more than enough it seems like you want more blood out of him plus holiday money that is a bit greedy dont you think and your comment will upset alot of people on here including mums who get a lot less or nothing at all or from dads who are struggling to live cos of mums like you.
Think if dads paying tht amonth then fair play to him…. You will get other benifits as well … So budget better if you want to take kids on holiday….
Wow why name him? 450 per month???? That’s plenty for a holiday on top of tax credits child benefit. Some women have no shame
well said lisa
How much? And u want more? I get hundred a month for my son which is 25 a week n I think that’s a fair amount , it’s not his responsibility if you want to take kids on holiday that’s your choice not his . He has to have money to live off as much as u do
£425 and u want more u have to be joking right. he has his own bills to pay u lucky allot people get fuck all or next to nothing . its ur kids money not urs anyway so not u he paying its his kids .
Greedy money orientated women – I thought the csa hell site was to support the parent who gets ripped off not to encourage the other parent to bleed the other dry! Arse holes!
I’m paying 600 a month plus she got the house you tell me if I should help to pay for a holiday as well when I only take 2000 a month home, I’m under stress with it all because on money grabbing ex…
I totally feel for you, my partner has the same with his ex the money grabbing bitch – there is no justice! The csa should be totally ashamed of what they are doing to thousands of decent men!
Why not ask him to fund a new BMW as well while your at it ?… Oh and a nice cottage in the country for weekend breaks?
Twat
disgusting. should he pay for a holiday? get a job or if u have one, save up an pay for your own!!
if its not enough get a job
It’s all about her, and she named him as well, sounds like a greedy bitch who gets her life all free, maybe you should ask him to just hand over his pay and live off nothing, makes me laugh these posts, poor bloke I feel sorry for, now she knows why she is the ex!!!!
Really ! Hows about u get a job n take them on hol
Erm.. I think I can smell a whiff of ‘money grabbing greedy bitch’??
Naming him kind of shows how bitter u must be completely out of order.
I think its great that you are prepared to write down a sum of money that you find acceptable,especially a lower one than most nrps have to pay. many of us have had to pay well in excess of £400 which leaves us financially crippled. If most of us had to pay the amount you suggested is acceptable there would be alot more happier and willing to pay people.
you make me laugh, im a single DAD who gets nothing and all you lot do is whine and whine this is a joke people like this person are lowlife’s
Whilst I agree with the posts so far and feel this lady is getting more then enough CSA from her ex and is being greedy expecting holidays as well. Please please bear in mind that not all single mums left to raise their kids are money grabbing bitches! I left my husband due to domestic abuse, his drug habit and his affairs. I am on my own working in a very low paid job and raising my 3 children without a penny from my ex because he refuses to pay. I still give him free contact to the children and although I went through CSA for some help as my children are really living in the breadline, because my ex is dodging his responsibilities and CSA I really can’t be bothered and I’m proud that I am fully financially raising my beautiful children. Whilst I would love a bit of financial support from their dad and if he cared about his children he would support them as I struggle for school uniform, shoes and clothes. Even when his mum buys the children clothes he keeps them at his house and won’t let them being them home so they can use them or any toys he buys them. So please remember not all as single mothers with care are like that.
greedy waste of space!!I know your type!!have kids and use them as a cash machine!!!jeremy kyle fat skank!!!!!
Wud mum
Help dad pay towards taking kids on hol
I think not
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OMG!!! Shame on you.. I get nothing from my ex for OUR daughter.. I WORK to pay for holidays, uniform everything she needs in fact.. Take some pride in yourself. GREED GREED and More Greed.. Your ex is entitled to a life too you know!!!!!!!
@ jill….but it’s the mother’s like the op above that give good mother’s a bad rap and genuinely need the csa’s help. I’m a pwc who has had no help and you get the above who thinks 450.00 isn’t enough, who I bet keeps on at the csa whilst genuine cases go untouched so she can get more!
This is how it all starts, wanting more money, sod the statistical equation the CSA rely on, her kids are getting looked after and she is likely to mess up his life and more importantly the kids lives. To name him in public to try and shame him, when he’s paying, shame on her.
My best friends wife gets £500 a month.
She’s for ever sending vile texts demanding more money.
She also prevented the kids from seeing him 7days before Christmas.
Some women just want to be kept , you worked before you got married take some responsibility for your life .
Omg £450 a month for all three kids ur house will be paid for u will get income support and tax credits and free percriptons and so on what’s your problem. When I was a single mum my ex paid me naff all cos he reconned he paid for his child’s clothes and he had to pay to collect her when I was a single parent u were only aloud £20 a week and rest was taken of ya money so ur very lucky it doesn’t all get stopped. If you want a holiday with your kids u save and take them…….
Never mind a holiday, how about you spend some money on educating yourself as you obviously missed out at school? That way your children may have a chance of making their way in the world?
I think the replies you received thus so far sum you up perfectly and need add no more other than
Greedy money grabbing skank that thinks the world and it’s dog OWES you a life.
Go get a job and stop expecting your ex to keep you lock stock and barrel. Where the hell did you think that he should pay for everything just because you go through the CSA? How is he supposed to live in your mind if you had your way and he payed for everything to keep you happy? No that don’t bother you does it.
Nasty money grabbing bitch
Gonk
Oh and another thing, I wander if the CSA knows he has the 2 boys once a month ? Cause he should tell them…then you should get even less from him lol……but that said….you would probably lie to them and say he does not, and of cause the CSA would believe you because they always take the side of the pwc. The Nrp has no rights
Gonk
This one must be a joke …. she cant actually be serious!!! lmao!! I just picked myself up off the floor from laughing!