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Always paid CSA but never seen my son

September 17, 2012

My ex left this side of the country 5 years ago and from the word go I was unable to see my son. She teased my mum who has epilepsy by letting her meet him and then telling her that she wont see him again!

I have paid every month and will continue to do so but I have never seen my son and have never been given the opportunity to do so under his mother’s request!

I would like to arrange a meeting between the three of us to organize how we can take this further.

Written by Paul Cheshire-King · Filed Under CSA Help 

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  • Tray says:
    September 18, 2012 at 5:59 pm

    Hi, I totally sympathise with you, but unfortunately the great CSA do not take into account contact issues at all. Contact and maintenance payments are treated totally seperately, wether the seperation from your kids is forced by the mother or not, they dont care. They just want your bank balance and couldnt give a hoot wether you see your kids ever. We are in the same circumstances where the mother lives a 114 miles away from us and she comes up with every trick in the book to make contact difficult on purpose. Of course this is in PWC interests as the less they give contact – the more the NRP gets squeezed for more coins as she has now stopped overnights too, which we can do absolutely nothing about. Its very sad state of affairs.

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