Absent fathers both in the same town as me
Been a single mum for 18 years. Split with Mr Trevor Neil Wright 18 years ago, due to violent and abusive relationship. Never received a penny maintenance when I returned to work or for the 18 years that I supported my two boys now aged 20 and 18.
Had another son by Dean Sullivan 11 years ago and still no support from him. He has been able to go abrouad several times and had numerous businesses. He provides money and contact for 2 childred after my son that their mum has been a benefit cheat and I have been harassed over the years/ I received numerous texts from his new partner about my childhood abuse and my mentaql health without any support from any of the family that all live in my home town of Maidenhead.
Trevor used to work cash in hand full-time and got away with it. Surely something has to be done. CSA has been a joke bringing up kids by myself and I think that something should be done or I’m going to the papers to tell my story of how I have survived as a single mum and worked to support my kids.
What exactly to your employees get paid for because I have had to do all the work on updating their situation?
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This is the reason why the csa doesnt work, it scrutinises the nrps already paying for the nrps that choose to hop. Have you been to your mp if you feel that the csa has let you down? I would recommend tho that you don’t name drop on here, as its a public forum.
Meanwhile, fathers like me who DO Pay are sent factitious arrears demands.
Jay
You are sooo right.this bag of shite called the csa hits hard on good honest working NRP’s who support the principal of looking after their kids….but not the unfair,unjust way it forces money out of us and treats us like criminals whilst the scumbags that go out of their way to avoid paying get away with it.
For example,my case,my ex left me for no other reson than she got bored lol,my daughter was 3 at the time.she moved to Germany to live with her new bloke,and there I was hounded by the Germans for payments as she gave them all my details.when she moved back to uk she went straight to the csa and im now forced to pay her £320 a month for one child.
This is only the beginning, her other ex who’s daughter was only 18months old when I met her mother am
And whom I brought up all with not one penny of help from him despite me taking him into my house and feeding him and letting him drink my wine and all because of his daughter who I didn’t want to drive a wedge between.my ex has never to this day done anything about getting money from him for his daughter , YET she has been on a mission to rob me of money when ever poss.This prick has since had another kid and guess what? Yes he’s left her for us mug tax payers to keep or some other mug guy to play father to another one of his kids…..so he’s just another example of the scumbag NRP’s that get away with it and so the rest of us are financially raped by the csa to make up the short fall of cash for the treasury.And let’s be honest here…the csa is just another form of taxation to claw back what it gives out to all the benefit scum that don’t won’t to work because they get more on the dole,and the council estate trash that fall pregnant by lots of different men just so they get a free meal ticket for life with all the trimmings and of cause imagine how much cash they may be racking in from different fathers who they have filed claims with the csa.its a fucking joke and these idiot politicians can’t see how these scumbags take all us tax payers for a ride and use their kids purely as cash machines.