New CSA charges are concerning me

I am deeply concerned regarding the new changes in place and the 20 per cent charge despite being repeatedly told they will give me my exes bank account details and I won’t have to pay the 20% charge I do not trust them.

I’ll start with my story my ex cheated on me and I left i then got told my daughter wasn’t mine and yet a few months later a call from the CSA so funnily enough I lost my job at this time and managed after my grandfather paid over £1000 in letters to see My daughter managed to get my ex to let me see her for a day i then had a phone call from my lawyers informing me that her lawyers had called to say I had kid napped my daughter ended up in court proved all lies wrong and started having access although she refused to turn up for DNA I still had to pay CSA recently my grandfather passed away and I bought a house I have now not seen my daughter for over 2 years for what I can only assume is a very jealous and bitter ex.

Anyways fast forward and my agreement ends with the CSA in November 2016 I have repeatedly asked to pay her money direct she has refused and laughed at me and said I have to to pay the charge and that is as far as I have got now due to the new changes will the onus be on her to prove I am father due to there never being any Dna we weren’t married repeated accusations from her to social services and school that Im not the father yet funnily enough the only people she does say Im the father too are the CSA suprise suprise i will continue to put money in an account and ask to pay direct until it is proven I may not even have a choice and have to continue to pay its all very frustrating and certainly does nothing to help just gives nasty stupid women more of a right to be vindictive and controlling.

I also pay CSA to another ex we have 2.boys unfortunately we had to break up due to me caring for my recently deceased grabdfather so I pay her money cash direct to her and see my boys I am on birth certificate for no problem will this help my case to hopefully avoid these charges or hopefully force my ex to a DNA test so there is 100 per cent proof I also think it’s illegal that they take money before tax and I also do some months a lot of overtime to make back the money I loose paying them so needless to say I have upped my pension contributions and cut out overtime for the following months until my case ends last payment is October 2016 so absolutely dreading November which is a shame as it is my other sons 1st birthday and I am unable to be a proper dad and family due to the amount of money the CSA takes it is such a terrible con and again does nothing to help Just need some advice and help on this matter.