I work hard to provide for my son, not because I put my career before him
I never said having a degree makes me a good mother or person my point is I work hard because I want to provide for him, not because I want to choose a career over him as you previously stated.
The reason I wrote my question in the first place was because the CSA website actually states he should give me more and I was curious whether or not it was worth going about.
Me and the farther have a brillent relationship with each and our son. We were together 10 years , want the best for our son so clearly have stayed friend and know neither of us want to get back together.
I can’t on here looking for advise I’m 24 and was purlee asking after looking at the csa website calculator what my options are. You have clearly just come on here to be argesive and comment ridiculous things such as ” I should have chosen a career. Well know male or female you can provide for you child, work and love them at the some time
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I commented on your previous post but what you’ve got to understand is that you have posted on a site called CSAhell.com. There a nrps left with less than 30£ to live on after the csa have robbed them! There are nrps that can’t even see their kids let alone have them for 3 nights a week! Obviously your gonna get some aggresive answers because perhaps your situation could be sorted just by sitting down with your ex and explaining that your side! Some of us will never get that opportunity because the pwc is not capable of having an adult conversation!
What do you want me to say , if you stop the kid sleeping over at his dads you will get 15 % of his take home pay, will this make you or your kid happy , I had a private arrangement with my ex but like yourself my ex got greedy went to the Csa and my payments dropped one quid a week but from that day onwards its been years of pain and suffering all caused by the Csa incompetence and worst of all a strained relationship with my son !
If you can agree between yourselves a reasonable amount , then do so. You appear to have a good situation and when you involve CSA thats when it all starts. Misery , unhappiness and the child being in the middle. Please do not use CSA , you really dont need to in your case.