I pay for my child, but women shouldn’t use kids as weapons

I claim csa for my child, the father has nothing to do with her. We did have a private agreement but he kept stopping the payments so i went to the csa it has been hard to get the payments even through them he still misses payments which just makes him more in debt.

I work and take care of my child and think he should pay for his child, many times i have had to have time off work unpaid cause she has been ill and still have to pay all my bills, the money i get from csa goes towards my child including clubs that she wants to go to.

I do understand some peoples anger when they have to pay but if you see you child each weekend then you should not and women that keep children from thier other parent for no good reason but just cause they want extra money are wrong.