How can I have a quiet life when the CSA is involved?

Hi, having been paying via maintenance direct for an AGREED payment scheme back in 2009, of which payments have and presently are religiously made via standing order in the X’s account.

Now even during this continuing, the CSA have made contact over xmas and claiming I am in arrears. They always are limited in the details therefore i stand proud with my continuous payments, fluent even whilst unemployed…for a quiet life..but never happens does it…the quiet life that is.

Therefore a four paged full typed was recorded delivered covering all disgust and facts. Yet they still stand by this alledged arrears… From a phonecall from csa on the 28th feb 2013..it emerges that a new claim was made in dec 2010 ( at the time my minor daughter had given birth….hmm good parental responsibilities there are disagree by the the PWC).

Being honest and forthcoming and having paid 10 grand in pursuing my british rights to have parental responsibility forms …which the X has breached every time, whilst on legal aid..denying my contacts..and i accept the past cannot be changed sadly.. yet i have been up front so far with the csa on the phone yesterday and today when she phone back up again with further details.

I have covered my unemployment and employment details to them ( currently unemployed due to contract work) Well the csa want me to terminate my present standing order to the X and start a new one through csa at the same payment until the new assessment is available with the facts and details from me..rather than estimations of earnings.

Any advice on the above please…between myself and partner we have never had any holidays with our children or mine even during the last 10 years of being together…Having been split from the unmarried X for nearly 13 years now… Are there any guidelines for CIS contract working and csa payments etc..

Thank you …and I accept not all PWC’ s are reliant on our taxes for their benefits and holidays etc.