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Ex went crazy when I ended relationship

May 15, 2012

Today I have been told by my employer that they have had the CSA contact them about taking money from my wages. I have not paid for seven years so I can only assume that a massive chunk of my pay is going to her and her new family.

I was a young man when I had my daughter and when it ended she went into a crazy bitch, I being young ran away from all this. But she found someone else and moved on, last letter I got from her was saying how she has a new dad, life’s great he is going to adopt her, we changed her name without your permission , we are happy and you and your family have to go through courts to see her again. Well it turns out that the CSA have no knowledge of this adoption and I don’t have the letter. I know it’s sad that I have lost my daughter and it’s my only regret in life.

This is going to cripple my new family completely!

I have a son now and after finally getting back on my feet I have all this coming back to kick me down, after years of having no fixed abode and sleeping on sofa’s and just being a complete wreck for years.

I feel really angry and upset, I have had my child used as a weapon against me, I have been banned from being in her life, I don’t think she is even aware that the person she calls dad isn’t even her dad and the CSA treat me like I was the one being wrong.

Just don’t know what to do.

Written by Jamie O Connor · Filed Under CSA Help 

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