Ex lied to get money out of me

January 9, 2017

She lied about the pill and got pregnant. She thought abortion was myrder so is keeping it. She split and tefused to get back with me.

Basically I was a sperm donor so that she can stay out of work for longer, get more money for an extra child and scrounge more money from me (her other childs father is a deadbeat who never paid a penny).

I’m having nothing to do with the child, he won’t have my name/s and I won’t be in the birth certificate.

I’ve arranged to make payments with her just so that she doesn’t go to the csa, but it’s there anyway to avoid paying either? I have this invisible debt for 18 years and its incredibly depressing and stressful.