Child maintance

I was in a 2 year abusive relationship my ex partner when she had our daughter we moved into our place that’s when things started to change her words towards me was was vile to nick picking belittling me in front of her friends and family my fiancé’s was being controlled she made me out to be a terrible father and told me I was useless I working 5 to 5 Monday to Friday to get extra money but that was never good enough she started to tell me I should kill myself as the world and my daughter would be better off with out me init. I couldn’t take much more and I had no choice to leave it wasn’t a easy choice because I wanted to be there for my daughter after we split I was going over ever 3 days in the week after work to spend a few hours with daughter. We starter to discuss a payment agreement for my daughter witch we did do at £150 a month what I didn’t expect was for my ex partner to make a malicious act towards me in contacting my work telling them I was abusive a week after I lost my job she messaged me to say now that I’m no longer working and have no income I can’t see my daughter anymore I was heart broken my life was just getting worse everytime shortly after I had a letter through the post to attend court for a non molestation order against me with no findings with false allegation accusing me of being the abuser when in the truth of everything I was the victim I wasn’t only her victim her ex partner before me even told me the things she done to him. She lied to child maintances of when we split up and told them I haven’t paid for 3 months child maintance didn’t even want to listen to let alone let me explain what she has said is false now I’m in arrears with no job I’m mentally struggling I’m having to have counciling to help me with the abuse I suffered under her. I’m in arrears of £668 pounds and was told while I’m out of work the arrears will keep piling up I love my daughter so much and I feel like men in this situation isn’t thought about or there feelings I came close to attempting suicide because I feel like what a women says it goes with child maintance.

I think it’s only far that if a women stops the father seeing his child the mother should face sanctions like these that men do.

. Lose driving licence
. Sent to prison for mentally abusing the child and father
.lose majority of there benefits
. Lose rights there rights to have full custody

To many men are dying because there being denied access so the mother can claim full wack child maintance it’s so wrong on so many levels that women get away of murder same as child maintance service