The money I’ve given hasn’t even been spent on my son

June 7, 2013

My son was born in May 2011, me & my ex partner broke up during the pregnancy, I have been paying £40 privately from the day he was born, that was up until may this year when I had to stop it! The last time I saw him was Jan 2012, this is because I can’t afford to see him, he lives in Cambridgeshire and I’m from Newcastle.

I had a baby girl in sept 2012 with my new partner and in the process I had to go bankrupt, now I’ve just received a letter from the CSA and I don’t know what to do??? I have a job but every penny I make goes straight back out!! My Ex partner is the devil, she keeps claiming he isn’t my son, that I’m just a sperm donor, she trapped me and now she has my money (this is one of the reasons I stopped paying)!!

Its killing me…. and she doesn’t work but can afford to go out every weekend (something I can’t do), she gets tattoo’d every other week and dye’s her hair constantly!! My money wasn’t even being spent on my son!! I only want to give her enough to buy supplies for my so as I don’t think I’ll get to see him until he’s old enough to understand what’s going on!! But the CSA want to take EVERYTHING from me!!!


  • Pete says:

    Welcome tothe wonderful world of the csa whom will lie and add fictioud arrears, Please join our group for somw wonderful advice!/groups/204256966364149/

  • Lisa says:

    Unfortunatly my friend trapped in a web of.lies deciet and probably false arrears caused by the scum that work there, join the above group, lets get you.sone.proper help,.

  • Denise says:

    I get very annoyed reading all the fathers on here moaning about being hard done by because they have to pay for their kids, stop having children then you won’t have to pay, it’s not the mother’s job solely to support kids.

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