Don’t give the CSA your NI number!

April 8, 2017

One thing people should know if you brake up with you ex and CSA phone you or call you don’t give them you are National Insurance Number, Bank Detail, Employer Detail. You know why?CSA can get you are detail from HMRC, DWP every penny you earn. without National Insurance Number they sitting in the dark this is because more than 15% people live in Britain had the same first name and last name. So this mean they can go to HMRC for me e.g. Mr Steve Price detail. so if CSA call and ask you to confirm you are NI and Date of Birth just hang up. If you tell them you are NI that mean yeahh… GINGO!!! for them they can start taken payment even so you don’t want them to.

CSA calculation will force me to go bankrupt

April 7, 2017

I have just been informed by my ex that my CSA was due on 1 April but I have not received any information. He states I will be paying 500 a month which will mean I will have to sell the house and now go bankrupt so I can pay this as I have had commitments for the past ten years and he has decided to do this now. It’s calculated on gross pay which is what I don’t get anyway- I pay over 1000 per month deductions to tax andNI – so paying out and calculated on monies that I don’t get anyway Also he earns 350 per day when he works 4 weeks on and 4 weeks off- how come I have to pay so much now after 10 years and he earns three times as much as I do- I pay monies direct to my son so he can have nice things for him and now I can’t do this.

CSA/CMS issues have caused me to hit rock bottom

April 6, 2017

Right where do i begin… i had a seperation back in 2000, and my ex and i had an arrangement of me paying child support, things were quite good between us still so (stupidly) i was paying her cash in hand every week, anyway we had a fall out and she stopped all contact and actully ripped up £200 in cash infront of me and threw it away.. shortly afterwards i was contacted by the csa looking for payments and after there assesment was done i was deemed nil liabilty at that time.. however i tried to arrange payments to my ex and even went to a brief and made contact with her that way to ask for bank details etc etc so i could pay money in for my son.she declined and told me to stay away.

Shortly after this she moved away and i couldnt trace them . in 2010 i recieved a letter from the csa telling me i owed a massive £37000 in arrears and i would have a deductions order inplace. i asked how this could be and explained everything that had happend and there responce was sorry we closed the case in error were very sorry heres £100 for your trouble we have caused you!! after that i have a constant battle trying to get to the bottom of how they have calculated the arrears to that figure as ive never been contacted nor given any financial details to them because no contact from them had been had… origanly they told me they closed the case in error (and payed me £100) then they told me the arrears were so high because they had made assesments based only on income because they couldnt find me or contact me!!

Surely if the case was closed in error they wouldnt be looking for me right ? ? the csa have also moved me from scheme to scheme over the years just to try and extract money from me, i must add that i have never not wanted to pay child support over the years and in one way i have been paying my way because i have supported 3 other step children over the years who didnt get any cash from the biological dad.i was deemed again nil liabilty in 2012 by the csa and for what ever reason the csa closed the case.

Dead on 16 weeks later the cms took over the case and this lot are relentless and do not consider anything in calculating child support.. so they basicly ran me into the ground caused me to run up huge debts because i couldnt make day to day living costs anymore, they also got me to the point of taking my own life, and they destroyed my marridge and i was left with nowhere to live , so sleeping in my car and sofa surfing with parents and freinds, i have nothing left anymore. ive sent endless letters that get ignored and ive asked for data files that get ignored,on top of that i developed a dibilitating illness so i am now self -employed as its the only way i can go out and earn some money when im able, due to the fact i have been turned down for all claims of disabilty ive applied for.

so where im at now is this..

i have just been hit with a £37000 liabilty order, i have a illness that im being treated for, huge amount of debt from my failed marridge, nowhere to call a home as im still sofa property left or assests.

im at rock bottom, and i have the worry of the bayliffs comin looking for things i dont own for payment, or the csa sending me to prison, or taking my driving lic there anybody who can help me with this living nightmare.

Clueless CSA’s poor service is causing animosity between partner and his ex

April 5, 2017

We are constantly contacted by my husbands ex who claims the CSA have contacted her with higher amounts that we owe. We are never contacted by the CSA and constantly have to contact them to check this is correct. We have spoken to them numerous times and numerous people who havent a clue why they she has received the letters (which we have seen) and that we don’t owe extra.. a few months pass and we are slapped with a higher figure being told we have to pay extra and that we have missed payments!!

Twice this has happened now in my bed a year and nothing has changed bar us having another child together (so surely they should go up not down?!) the amounts they have sent us are luckily also less than the amount in the letters sent to my husbands ex. This however then causes friction in the co-parenting between him and his ex as they are often squabbling about the fact the payments are wrong.

With a young family and myself on a low income due to maternity, my husband is the main earner. We can’t afford for them to swap and change their mind constantly and not notify us of changes.

They appear as if they have no clue what they are doing which has a huge detrimental effect on families. They already take out more than we can afford to pay without them adding arrears onto the account! When you try to Make a complaint to them you then go round in circles to which no end is reached.

Even though I pay maintenance, ex won’t let me see my son

April 4, 2017

I am writing as I have a son age 10 living with me as I have custardy and another son who’s 6 but I haven’t seen him since he was 1 but I have been paying £40.00 per week for since I have tries/asked to see him but my ex will not let me see him. so after another row she told me to stop paying a week ago , but she has rung today demanding money , I’m still not aloud to see him ! where do I stand on payments do I stop paying or keep paying even though I would love to see my son.

My case is coming to an end but I’m still paying

April 3, 2017

Please can you help my csa payments are coming to a end but I phoned csa to check why I’m still paying for normal payments on my statement as well as arrears when my daughter finished claiming in September 2016. And it still says on my statement usual payments £245 per month as well as £210.90 arrears per month When I asked Why it was written like my daughter was still getting regular maintenance payments they said it was all arrears and this is how do it on a statement which is closing. Is this right or do you know if I have a claim. Because iv been Pluto through hell with csa for years.

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