Women who stop access should have no right to money

January 25, 2013

Right first off i would like to say i am not a money grabber. Been with my partner for 14 years.

My partner has a daughter who is now 18. I got with him when she was 4. We had her every weekend for a few years then it stopped.

The mother left it for 5 years then came to the house saying hiss daughter was on the at risk register and he could not even find out why. Yet they looked into us. Then she stopped it again for 3 years. We had moved house so the mother ask hiss daughter where my mom lived and turned up at my moms door. Lucky we was there. Anyhow he tried to build up a relelitionship with hiss daughter now 14. But she was sending texts saying she wants to run away and kill herself at the time he found it very hard as he never knew her.

She then stopped it again.

I think if the woman stops the man seeing the child they should have no right in the ex money. As she has told him she has. New dad her husband so if thats the case my partner should not have to pay. She is always getting csa on him.

I feel sorry for the dads who are forced out there childs life. Yea it takes two to make them so two should have equil right.

Lucy

CSA demanded almost two thousand pounds back pay to be paid instantly

January 25, 2013

I received a new assessment from the CSA in their letter of 10th January 2013 – the first since their incorrect nil assessment on 31st October 2012. In it they state I should pay £65.71 per week maintenance for my children. They go on to state that if I have any arrears they will write to me separately.

One week later I receive a telephone call from them demanding back payment of £1707; no letter. Failure to make an immediate payment they explained would result in a deduction of earnings order. They go on to say that I have good credit (presumably because they have accessed my bank details) implying that I can make a lump sum payment.

I never totally regained my composure throughout the conversation but did manage to explain that the savings I had access to were the proceeds of the house sale from when I was married. I’d put this money aside as this was my deposit Read more

I pay for ex and her boyfriend to go on holiday with my children’s money

January 25, 2013

I applied to pay my ex wife Rebecca Fisher child support through the CSA back in May 2012 as she was asking me for far too much when I moved into my own house with my new wife in April.

I was asked to make a list of any purcheses or any money payments I made to Rebecca for my children as voluntary payment I did this which included school uniforms I had brought for my sons, shoes and Trainers for all 3 of my children, along with payments made for Claudia to be taken to school from Rebecca’s house to her school in Retford, my sons snack monies at school. glasses for Claudia and Thomas which all added up to £500 in total. CSA ask Rebecca if she accepted this as part payment and she said no because this was for our children at my house even though Read more

Ex refuses to pay maintenance through the CSA

January 24, 2013

My ex’s salary is being capped at £2000 a week because the government dont allow the csa to acknowledge anymore of the weekly salary…for the 15 years i was with him his salary was in excess of £4,000 a week.

I have not received a penny from him since October 2011 for the two boys I bring up 24/7. He doesn’t want them to interrupt his own personal life. I haven’t been allowed to pursue my own life.

He looks after two daughters of his new wife in a luxury country house, he pays £4,300 a month rent so I can not put an attachment to his mortgage. The boys and I are going to be homeless very soon….we have a hostel, YMCA or an undesirable council property. He left his wife and moved into my house, my furniture my everything he came with his DIY manual a drill he had to sneak out of the garage and his powder blue M&S y fronts.

It is a legal requirement to pay maintenance but he just says no. He now owes me in the region of £20,000 but can and does deny paying it. There is no threat… So I get nothing. So please guys I sympathize but it not very nice!!! I have not lied and I have nothing to hide so not bothred about the IP address being shown.

My opinion of men that screw their children out of a life is not good.

Nothing from rich ex after 15 years together

January 24, 2013

My CSA story is that I have had to do all the research into my case to get to where I have got to. I have had to write 3 letters to David Cameron where by his office just ignored the main issue and sent the letters onto the DWP. It was my own MP that recognised the issue being a CSA one and then this got me a case worker. Once I got my case worker he was able to pursue my ex based on all of the correspondence that I had forwarded to them.

The third letter to David Cameron, because I was frustrated with what I was being told and no one was believing me a got me a full rundown of where my case was at, they also provided me with a name to write to if I had further concerns. My ex went to Court last November. His salary has been found out by the CSA and have to cap it at £2000 a week and yet take his new baby, his 6th child and the only one he Read more

Can I get my second child assessed through the CSA?

January 24, 2013

I have 2 young boys. One boy is 12 and one boy is 8. I have split from both mothers and have been paying both women money since we split up using a csa agreement for my oldest son and paying private agreement with my youngest son. Recently my oldest son has stopped visiting (stayed every weekend) because of his mother’s interference. Once he stopped visiting I stopped my payments as I wanted to force her to give me access to my son again. In response to this she contacted the csa who have made an assessment of my earning and are trying to get me to pay £96 a week out my net £380 under the old pre 2003 csa calculator. With my outgoings, which include my private agreement for my other child and bringing up another small child I really can’t see where I am going to get this money from.

Does anyone know if it would be possible for me to get my second child assessed through the csa and get moved over to the post 2003 csa calculator. I have read through the leaflet information and they have said that this would be the only way to move my first son onto the post 2003 calculator. Thank you in advance for any help you can give me.

Never missed a payment but CSA wants more money

January 23, 2013

Today I received a letter for £28000 from the CSA. When I split from my sons Mother, we had an agreement arranged through solicitors. The CSA recommended that I pay £380 my ex agreed to £250 as I gave her everything and also agreed to pay off the debts.

I have never missed a payment. I have always kept in contact with my son and I have to admit being in the forces it has been hard work and sometime expensive, but I have always been there.

I’ve also provided his Xmas presents and gave his Mum extra when needed. When my son left school he went to college, I carried on paying, He then joined the Army and as I know that the wages are low in basic training I paid him a set amount each month. Now after 2 years the CSA have demanded £28000. I must also state that once the csa asked to see my pay slips 2001, I showed them.

They were happy as we had a voluntary agreement. every now and again I would get a statement from them. I would get in touch with them and they would tell me that it was a gliche with the system and to ignore them. My Ex would also get in touch with them. I then got a statement in 2007 for £28000 I called them and so did the ex. we were informed that the case was closed. and now for the good part, they have sent me a letter demanding the full £28000 and my ex is currently down on her luck and wants all the £28000.

They have not even asked about the payments I have made, they just want the cash. Any ideas or help would be gratefully appreciated

Child Support Agency Infographic

January 23, 2013

The Child Support Agency (CSA) was launched in 1993 and, since that date, has affected a great many lives of both parents and children. What was supposed to be a force for good, ensuring children receive the money they deserve from absent parents, the CSA instead ended up costing the UK taxpayer billions and was instrumental in the breakdown of families and has even been accused of being responsible for the suicides of many fathers.

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CSA refuse to explain how they worked out what I am to pay

January 23, 2013

I had for about 14 years, an amicable arrangement with my two children’s mother with maintenance, and sharing the costs of children growing up, clothing, school stuff, trips, pocket money etc and that suited our split family well, I still felt like a proper father to a certain extent having some say in their lives. I have always had my two children’s well being as my number one priority .. As soon as my business ( my business built by myself ) started to make some money my ex decided to get the Csa to calculate a new maintenance deal to suit herself, her husband and their own agenda ..

My son was coming up to 17 and due to start a college course which involved him staying away from the home four nights a week away in London, there was travelling and bed and breakfast costs to be considered along with a little cash in his pocket every week .. His in college term time costs came to £120 a week .. I paid £100 of this with his mother paying £20 .. The Csa demanded full maintenance payments Read more

Paying every week but not allowed contact

January 23, 2013

Reading the daily newspapers and i read an article, it satated this as a headline… “Male Suicide at 10yr High as Recession Bites” well in my opinion i notice the recession hits all but most of people, not just males.

This tells me me its an easy cover up to note how many men kill them selves in suicide bids over money worries as the CSA insist on stripping all men of any wages our homes our careers and our relationships with both children or future partners!!!!!!

They can blame the recession but the £183 a week i put in to the CSA a week (for one child) i can see why i would attempt suicide after being disallowed contact for a year (as theres more money in it for her) but certainly dont see why its blamed on a recession.

Morale of the story GIVE US BLOKES A CHANCE AND OUR CHILDREN A FATHER.

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