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Have you tried finding work and earning some of your own money?
Welcome to the world of single mums raising their children without support from the dad. It took CSA 2yrs to get any maintenance out of my children’s dad when he was employed and that was only because CSA ended up getting a deductions of earnings order direct from his salary as he constantly refused to pay but as I said that took CSA 2yrs to do that! Then my ex gave up his job said he is unemployed and living off his girlfriend (all a lie as he is doing cash in hand work). I have learnt to struggle and raise my children financially in my own and I have 3! The sad thing is constantly having to say no to them when they need new clothes, school trips or after school clubs! It’s me that has to suffer their tears and tantrums when I say no and their father feels that his contact with them is more then enough! Men get away with murder!
Jill I don’t think it’s fair to generalise that “all men are getting away with murder” because it simply isn’t true.
Yes there are a great deal of useless father’s out there who avoid paying and shirking their responsibility (my partners ex is one of these) but equally there are many women who abuse the system to get paid for having babies and the csa is equally as bad for enforcing (illegally at times) payments that should not stand.
My partner gets zero from her ex who works as a £40k+ a year doctor where I’m forced to pay £500 a month on a very low wage, I’m now owed over £5000 from the csa in over payments but can’t get them while my ex continues to defraud the welfare system and csa to rake in huge amounts of cash.
Not all men are useless, not all women are greedy but there are bad people in both sides.
She needs to dry her eyes, get your ass out to work and be dependant rather than depending on others, i agree the father needs to pay but CSA is shafting everybody and its about time women got some of their own medicine back rather than the fathers all the time
Wat will happen when the kids dad move to spin with his new partner i never had any money of him from February bc he said he has no job but he can move away i had to get a part time job so the kids are happy
Maintenance money is extra free money. You’d have child benefits money.
If your really struggling for money get a job or ask for extra hrs.
The forms will all depends on the business there going to.