Can parents claim CSA if child is registered with Connexions?

January 4, 2011

My son is 18 in Feb and over the last 3 yrs the CSA have told me various times that my payments would end when he is 16 / when he leaves school/ whehn he leaves full time education/ depends on what course he is doing.

Now he left college in July last year and the CSA gave me a cast iron gurantee that my payments would stope when he either left college or his 19th Birthday, so when I called in July they confirmed to call back 1st week of Sept and they would close the case.

Since 1st week of Sept they have not closed the case and now they tell me it is because his mother is still claiming child allowance under a new rule that says if he is registered with Connexions she can have an extension of up to 5 months…….Is this true ??

Comments

  • Helen Humphreys says:

    i think there still entitled 4 a certain amount of weeks.twenty i think.

  • hg says:

    she can claim it for 20 weeks i think if the teenager is out of work and registered at connections

  • Dolphin Keeley says:

    Payments end, when the child ends education. Or a mother starts being a real mother..And keep their child. And STOP living offf the NRP.

  • Lorraine Moore says:

    That's not actually true though is it?

  • Dolphin Keeley says:

    Yes it is very true….

  • Lorraine Moore says:

    In your head, maybe..but not REALLY! lol

  • Lisa Hunter says:

    again Dolphin out to alienate, and then wonders why she gets the response she does…you do your thing dear and we'll do ours!

  • Dolphin Keeley says:

    You will carry on being a greddy PWC. And we will carry on fighting the CSA to take outgoings into consideration….I hope you have to live on 60% of your income..See how all you greddy PWC feel then.

  • Lisa Hunter says:

    I get nothing….learn to spell!

  • Lorraine Moore says:

    Who is greedy?

  • Lisa Hunter says:

    apparently PWC are Lorraine…because we dare to ask for maintenance and that Dolphin is such a paragon of virtue that she allows her childrens Father to not pay a penny towards there upkeep and expects ALL PWC to do the same! As i've always said Dolphins are supposed to be intelligent, but in Ms Keeley case this is where the theory falls down!

  • Alyson Davies says:

    In dolphins defence she might be a partner or wife of a NRP who has paid for the up keep of the child/children, has them stay at regular times, while the child/children is with them they have to try and afford to feed them and try and make their stay as enjoyable as possible, its very hard to do this when the CSA take your mortgage/rent off you and not leave you enough for a tin of beans. Some PWC are greedy so and sos who just want to hurt their ex, even if it was their decision to end things, some PWC are fighting for what is rightly thiers and what they deserve, Some NRP's are loving doting dads who would do anything for their kids, while getting robbed by the CSA, The dead beat dads who couldn't give a shit, deserve everything they get, but outgoings should definatly be taken in to consideration. How will a PWC get money if the NRP is homeless, jobless, and living on the streets, changes need to be made in all circumstances.

  • Dolphin Keeley says:

    Who is Ms Keeley? I kept my own children. As I had them with me. Understand this. My children I paid. And not all PWC. Take note I will say that again. NOT ALL PWC.

  • Dolphin Keeley says:

    But Alyson PWC don't see this…It is money money money with them..

  • Dolphin Keeley says:

    Why should I take money off a father and make him homeless with his new family. It is dam right EVIL. Greedy PWC…

  • Dolphin Keeley says:

    And Lisa try multitasking… That is what I am doing.

  • Lorraine Moore says:

    See Alyson..I agree with you as I am in the same position.However I cannot tolerate anti-PWC rants..especially unintelligable ones. PWCs are being insulted all the time on here and it's not right. The point of this group is for both NRPs and PWCs to air their grievances.

  • Dolphin Keeley says:

    And Lisa I remember you going on and on about your ex owns you thousands. And he should pay up. That makes you a greedy PWC. If he paid up he would be homeless and with his new family if he has one. So get it right before having a go. What normal human would put children on the streets…

  • Lorraine Moore says:

    He wouldn't be homeless. he has plenty of money due to his self employed status he doesn't have to pay, because he can hide it! why should Lisa, and countless others..shoulder the entire financial outlay of THEIR children?Bloody hell it's not even as if she is asking for much.

  • Dolphin Keeley says:

    Because it is called being a mother!!! Hello that is what a mother does.

  • Tracy Jackson says:

    Ignorant woman!!!!!!!!!! It should be what a father bloody well does as well!!!! Why the hell should any decent PWC shoulder the sole financial burden of raising a family – we already have the emotional & physical stress??? I pay my mortgage, full council tax, insurances and everything else that goes with running a family home with 3 children. Every penny coming in goes out and then more. He has nothing to do with them because they are a drain on his time and resources. I have no qualmes about him losing his way of life – he and his 3rd wife live off £80k a year (and the rest – they're self employed). I'm raising a family on £20k and have not had a penny in 4 yrs. Kids didnt even get an xmas or b'day card this year. JOINT PARENTAL RESPONSIBILTY MEANS JOINT FINANCIAL AS WELL!!!!

  • Dolphin Keeley says:

    Well if you mean me…Well I have and still raising some children. 5 children all together two was to ex husband. I never claimed off him. My children. They got what they needed and more. Now because of a greedy vinditive cow. Lost our business. And husband has had to get a low shit paid job..After CSA we are left with 9 grand a year to live off. The greedy PWC even gets some of my daughters DLA tax..She has a brain tumour. So don't you start. You have 20 grand a year and what more..And you will get child tax ect…So get off your high horse and open them eyes. PWC are putting familys on the streets all for money.

  • Dolphin Keeley says:

    Take note greedy cow gets 26 grand a year for one child with all benifits and what is mugged off us…Wake up…This is CSA hell for you…

  • Tracy Jackson says:

    Your kids got what they needed and more because you had a new partner and you had a business!!!! Not everyone is that lucky. She is a greedy cow getting that much just for her and 1 child, my £20k INCLUDES tax credit, working tax credit and child benefit as well as full time wages. £1600 to pay for 3 kids, a mortgage and all bills is nothing. It also pays for a £50 a week round trip to visit my daughter who is in a residential home suffering from anorexia for the last 6 years….well at least I dont have to feed her eh!!!! This is not a pissing competition…. I'm sorry that your daughter is ill and the stresses that you are going through, but there are other people in the same situation as you ie. not enough money to live on and the injustice of it. I've been told the money my exes new wife earns is not taken into account (and I wouldn't bloody want it!) so why are they taking from a sick child? Perhaps you should vent your anger finding out why and if its legal instead of slagging off PWC's who think the NRP's should put their hands in their bloody pockets for the children they helped to create!

  • Lorraine Moore says:

    Oh my oh my..if that's what a mother does, I wonder what it is a father is supposed to do, eh? sheesh..

  • Tracy Jackson says:

    Post on anti – csa websites with new wife??? slag off mother of their children for being a greedy goldigger??? drive to the airport in their Jag and sod off to America on holiday???… No???…just my kids dad then!!

  • Lorraine Moore says:

    No..not just yours Tracy, unfortunately!

  • Charmaine Leworthy says:

    and it goes on, and on, and on!! Hello Tracey, welcome to CSAHell, the site that allows intelligent adults, and Dolphin, to discuss their problems with the CSA and slate any PWC that dares to have the audacity to expect her childrens father to contribute to their upbringing!!!!

  • Lee Hughes says:

    Companies like the CSA make you start to question the law…. it's surprising what comes to light and it really starts to open your mind, it's all about the money….this whole country and the system it has exported all around the world !!!

  • Alyson Davies says:

    Why are you all arguing amongst yourselves on here, the CSA is the enemy, instead of bickering and questioning every bodies motives, everybody should be coming together and finding a way to take down this organisation. Not all PWC are greedy gold diggers i know this as i have many friends who just want a little financial help raising a child that was made by two people, thankfully (my partner included) they have managed to work things out without having to include the CSA. There was a time when the CSA was involved in our situation, we had a baby due in 5 weeks, his ex got jealous and slammed us with the CSA, we had £320 coming in every week, then the CSA took £175 out of it, we were nearly homeless, luckily his ex could see that if we had no home neither would the children when they came, since then it is all amicable, my partner always paid for his children and would buy them clothes when needed, his Ex just wanted to prove a point that she had the power, all because we were having a baby and she ASSUMED that we would no longer want to have her children.

  • Alyson Davies says:

    I know two women in my local area who actually make a living of CSA by having as many kids as they can by practical strangers just to get CSA, These women need to be punished, i mean going out to pull some stranger and have unprotected sex just in the hope of getting pregnant is both wreckless and negligent, they have all this money off their victims, and can't even teach their children basic language skills.Men beware always wear a condom, and if you have been caught out by one of these CSA wags, i suggest you open up an account put money in every week, then when the CSA finally catch up with you atleast you have some money to pay off the arrears.

  • Lee Hughes says:

    The state should take THEIR assets (children) off them and jail these women… mind you, if you sleep with a woman without a second thought then you deserve to reap what you sow!The enemy is NOT the csa but the crazy system behind it!!!

  • Alyson Davies says:

    yeah some of the men are idiots for doing it in the first place, but one particular fella who passes out after drinking due to dibetes got caught with out even remembering, he woke up the next day with this woman naked next to him, it was apparent he had had sex, the thing is we were the ones who put him to bed there was no naked woman in his bed when we put him there, she deliberatly went up after we had all left, and once this fella had passed out there was no waking him so she just carried on regardless. She was really quite open about it and found it extremely funny.

  • Dolphin Keeley says:

    Pardon I never…I had my two children alone for 4 years thank you. I had no business then thank you. Two children to ex. They got what they needed..And 26 grand is taken the piss. She is a greedy cow.

  • Dolphin Keeley says:

    And alot on here need to read. NOT ALL PWC. ALOT OF THEM ARE GREEDY VINDITIVE COWS.

  • Dolphin Keeley says:

    Alyson I agree with you. Not all PWC are gold diggers. A little money take note a little. Not over 400 a bloody month. And make us lose every thing. At first we had to pay 890 + you would not even spend that on the child if you still lived with them. Take note she has took everything off us. Greedy cow she is. No need to take everything and to live off us.

  • Dolphin Keeley says:

    That is a form of rape Alyson. He needs to take her to court. That is bad…Bang out of order.

  • Dolphin Keeley says:

    And as for the dog Charmaine Leworthy. What can you say to that dog shit that will not come off your dam shoe. GO BACK TO SCHOOL AND READ. WE HAVE BEEN PAYING FOR TWO KIDS FOR 16 YEARS. ONE IS NOT MY HUSBANDS. Do you understand now. God I hope so. Been saying this for months. READ what is there and not what you want to see. You are just like my husband said. Just go away and live your sad little life…And keep drugs away from children…

  • Lisa Hunter says:

    Thank you Lorraine and Charmaine for your extremely valid, intelligent comments!

  • Charmaine Leworthy says:

    Alyson, there's no doubt that women like you describe exist and use their womb as a noose and a pay packet, with no thought for the children produced or the men destroyed. Again, they do it because the government allow and accept it, and because they have the morals of a swamp rat. I read of one woman that had a ridiculous amount of kids, can't remember the exact number but it was in double figures, and everyone was taken off her at birth because she couldn't care for them and ultimately the tax payer ended up with the bill. She has openly said that she will continue to have these children just to piss off social services. They are an abomination. In fairness to the men, some women are quick enough to use the old 'its my body, my decision' theory when an unplanned pregnancy happens, the poor guys have absolutely no control over the situation yet end up coughing up for the next 18 years. The mans human rights are not even thought about and neither are the childs.

  • Charmaine Leworthy says:

    Oh and Dolphin, there is nothing sad about my life, keeping Drugs away from children is a very worthwhile and rewarding career, as I'm sure EVERY parent on this site will agree. And if you would like to read properly, you will see that I have agreed with you many times that you're husband should not be paying for a child that is not his and he should get every penny back, do you understand now?? God I hope so!!

  • Dolphin Keeley says:

    Are you at it again? As I said stop changeing your mind. Stop putting comments about me up.And I will back off calling you.See if you get the mess this time.END.

  • Most PWC are greedy, think they can run to the CSA and take what they can, oh and stop contact when they want. My partner has nearly half of his wages taking off him for children he can't even see because 'she says so'. Our two kids suffer whike she lines her pockets, the system is a mess

  • chall says:

    Is your partner repaying arrears Natalie Lawrence?

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